Suzanne Venker
Author and Relationship Coach
Dear Men, Believe me, I know how confusing it is to be a man in 2022, and I suspect it’s twice as hard to understand what it is, exactly, that women want. For decades, women have been clamoring for “equality,” which as far as you can tell means they want to live traditionally male lives …
The average woman in the West today has been raised to believe she should “never depend on a man.” Sadly, this goes way beyond finances and ultimately shatters the trust that’s required to build a relationship that lasts. She usually internalized this for one of the following reasons: She was a product of divorce and …
A new study of 5,000 single Americans age 18 and older who aren’t in a committed relationship has found that nearly three-quarters of the participants say they want to find a spouse. These “post-pandemic singles” are now dating more deliberately. The question is, do they know how to date deliberately? Or more specifically, do women? …
Did you know that 72% of entrepreneurs suffer from mental-health issues? “No one said building a company is easy. But it’s time to be honest about how brutal it really is — and the price so many founders secretly pay,” notes Jessica Bruder at Inc. And yet, scroll through Instagram or TikTok, and you’ll soon …
It’s not a matter of whether or not women can do anything men can do. It’s a matter of whether or not they want to. And the data is clear: They don’t. New research (not the first of its kind) shows that roughly 43% of women leaders are burned out compared to only 31% of …
According to a new article from the BBC (and it isn’t the first on this subject), more and more millennials around the world are in sexless marriages. The question is why. As is often the case the case, the answers are varied. But at the core of it lies an overarching theme. Millennials are facing …
Dear Suzanne, I hope you’re well. I’ve listened to many of your videos searching for answers, but I am stuck for what to do in my current situation. I’m 31, and my partner is 33. We’ve been together for three years and have deeply struggled with the gender roles and cultural conditioning that has been …
“I can’t win with my wife.” “I’ve tried everything to make my wife happy, and nothing works.” “I feel like my wife has sex just to appease me.” Do any of these sound familiar? If so, you’re likely a great husband and father but a frustrated man whose marriage has lost its luster. Maybe you …
There isn’t a married couple on the planet who doesn’t have to deal with money—and for many couples, it’s a major source of conflict. Indeed, money is the #1 cause of divorce and marital strife. But money isn’t really the problem. The problem is all the emotions that surround it. Each of us bring a …
Don’t marry the first person you fall in love with. The more relationship experience you have before getting married, the better. That way you’ll know yourself better when you say, ‘I do.’ For decades this has been the relationship narrative passed on to the young and unattached. But my experience as a relationship coach suggests …
No woman is able to return to life as she knew it pre-baby. ~ So I had an interview scheduled with London author Louise Perry, whose new book, The Case Against the Sexual Revolution, was just released this week (although it’s been available in the UK for several months). Perry, who’s thirty years old, married, …
Suzanne talks exclusively to men about how to be great husbands and outlines six ways to win their wives’ hearts. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Show up. Look her in the eyes with no distractions when you’re having a serious conversation. Never stop romancing her. Listen and be open to anything …
There isn’t a person on this planet who can avoid relationship conflict (unless, of course, you remain single.) In fact, if you’re someone who hates confrontation, you’re going to struggle to be in a marriage or relationship at all—until or unless you learn how to argue effectively with your spouse. In this episode, Suzanne offers …
Suzanne explains what millennials get wrong when it comes to money and marriage. According to a 2021 Fidelity Investments Survey, one in five couples aged 25 and older who are either married or in a relationship identify money as their greatest relationship challenge. Over 50% of millennials don’t want to get married “until their finances …
Suzanne discusses the advantages of women marrying earlier rather than later. Women’s priorities change as they age The problem with the “finding oneself” argument Men’s and women’s different dating strategies A new report shows almost half of young people want to marry on the younger side: “Is Marrying Later Always Better? New Report Says No.” …
So my 22-year-old daughter, who graduates from college next month, recently received a wedding invitation from her freshman year roommate. At their university, like many others in the South, finding one’s spouse via fraternities and sororities isn’t that uncommon. Needless to say, my own college experience was decidedly different in that I graduated from a …
Hey Everyone, I will be taking a break from The Suzanne Venker Show while I build two online courses. In the meantime, you can find me on YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram; and I will continue to correspond w my subscribers on a weekly basis. If you’re not currently a subscriber, you can sign up here. …
Suzanne talks about how casual sex affects women drastically different than it affects men. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:20 Suzanne reads from Loose Girl, a book that analyzes in great detail the emotions that accompany what most young women experience when they engage in casual sex 2:27 The average guy who partakes in casual sex doesn’t …
A new Gallup poll shows that America’s trust in media has dipped to second lowest on record. This is such a massive divide in our country that I don’t personally think is going to get better. People are so far apart in terms of their worldviews that there’s just no common ground anymore, I wish …
Suzanne makes a few announcements re coaching, The Suzanne Venker Show, and the New Year. Merry Xmas, Everyone!
“King David” is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time. King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he’s out of his teens now, every year more young …
Suzanne talks about women who want to stay home w their baby and who have to convince their husbands that this is the right thing to do. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:20 Suzanne reads an email from a wife who does not want to leave her baby to go back to work 3:40 Sex differences become …
Suzanne makes an announcement about the new schedule for The Suzanne Venker Show.
Question #1 – Suzanne reads an email from Mark who describes how women are mistaken to think having a diploma is enticing to men on its own and how that’s not the issue with women having trouble finding high-status men. Question #2 – Suzanne answers questions from a young woman who is in a serious …
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