Suzanne Venker

When was the last time you heard something positive in the media about men? It could be in the news, or in a commercial, or in a television program, or in a film. Yeah, that’s what I thought. And when was the last time you read a magazine article or a novel in which a …

Something is happening in the world of men: a global awakening, a time of rediscovery, a rebirth. Men around the world are drawing on the best of masculinity from all of time to redefine what it means to be a man—on their terms. Stanford grad Will Spencer is on a mission to help men learn …

Suzanne discusses the uncomfortable reality of a giant earnings gap in which the woman is the higher earner by highlighting an article in The New York Times entitled, “How I Fell for an ‘I’m the Man Man.” IN THIS EPISODE: 2:35  Suzanne reads from an article in the NY Times entitled “How I Fell For …

Did you know online dating is a billion-dollar business? Suzanne talks about how women can use these dating sites to their  advantage by recognizing the deep differences between what women want and what men want when it comes to love and commitment. IN THIS EPISODE: 2:15  Men are twice as active on dating apps as …

Suzanne and her daughter Emma, 21, talk about social media’s effect on relationships and, in particular, on young women. IN THIS EPISODE: 6:20  What is it like to be Suzanne’s daughter? 9:00  What is “sexting”? 10:50  Social media and its effects on young women. What does Emma see in her world/age group? 11:30  Social media …

Motherhood has never been easy. But compared to today, our own mothers’ experience was a walk in the park. Suzanne discusses the truth about why motherhood is so damn hard today—and why it doesn’t have to be. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:40  Suzanne reads a viral Facebook post about “what society expects from women/mothers” 8:40  It …

Suzanne discusses a recent Pew study that shows men are more likely than women to be single, as well as Fox News’ Laura Ingraham’s segment entitled “Where have all the men gone?” IN THIS EPISODE: 2:00  Suzanne references a podcast episode from The Roommates w/ Jordan Peterson about why men are choosing to be single …

#1 –  My boyfriend and I are dating with the prospect of getting married, and I am moving to his country to be with him. I want to prioritize my family but have a side hustle. What is your advice re side hustles? #2- My fiance and I have small arguments constantly that turn into …

Suzanne talks about the power of silence in a marriage or relationship. IN THIS EPISODE: 2:25  Silence is powerful 3:15  Women talk much more than men 3:50  When you don’t talk as much you become a better listener 6:40  Your husband is NOT your girlfriend! 7:40  You don’t have to air every thought you have …

Suzanne explains why being agreeable, rather than being a “challenger” or offering alternative thoughts to your husband’s all the time, is a boon for your marriage. IN THIS EPISODE: 1:30  Stop saying no 9:20  Suzanne talks about what a typical conversation sounded like in the past with her husband compared to now 11:30  Know when …

Suzanne and her assistant Kelsey discuss the life of the entrepreneur.   IN THIS EPISODE: 2:50  Suzanne’s assistant, Kelsey, discusses her background 8:20  You don’t have set hours when you have your own business. You basically work all of the time 9:10  The pros: No boss, make your own hours, license to be creative 9:35  …

Suzanne discusses wealth building, especially within the context of  marriage. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:40  Whether or not you’ll be successful with money depends on your behavior 5:40  There is a lot of misinformation about building wealth 8:00  The experiences you have growing up shape your views on money 9:40  When you get married, you join …

Suzanne addresses the many requests she’s had from folks who’ve asked, “What do we do about our sons?” and “How can we best raise our sons in these times?” IN THIS EPISODE: 4:35  Millennial men have been acculturated to the equality mindset 5:30  A lot of women have to convince their husbands that staying home …

Whom we choose to marry, and how that marriage fares, has the single greatest effect on our happiness and well-being than anything else we do. The outcome of that singular decision will dictate the entire course of your future. What sense does it make, then, to NOT prioritize it? IN THIS EPISODE: 1:15  Who we …

Suzanne discusses two money non-negotiables for having a strong marriage. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:00  Too many modern couples entering marriage with the same mentality they had when they were dating (“yours” and “mine”) 5:00  Separate accounts cause problems in marriage 9:45  Sex differences: The difference between a husband’s income and a wife’s income 11:00  Married …

Suzanne tells the truth about women’s fertility, as opposed to the watered down version women get from the culture. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:10  Modern women are not aware of the truth about their fertility 4:05  You have to account for the process in what is involved in trying to have a family. 8:25  On average, …

2:00  My boyfriend won’t say “I love you” and is not expressive or open to talk about next steps for the future 5:00  My son is asking me to open a bank account in my own name to save money because he is dating a girl who inherited money and lives at home. This girl …

Suzanne discusses fives reasons women don’t get what they need from their man. IN THIS EPISODE: 6:00  Reason #1: They have their guard up 9:55  Reason #2: They micromanage. 11:10  Reason #3: They can’t “let go” and learn to receive. 14:00  Reason #4: They complain and/or nag. 15:15  Reason #5: They assume the worst.

Suzanne reads evolutionary biologists Bret Weinstein’s and Heather Heying’s article, “An Evolutionary Biologist’s Guide to Finding Love in the 21st Century” and provides the roadmap needed to get men and women back on track. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:00  Suzanne reads an article from Daily Wire 4:50  The entire issue (especially regarding sex) is largely due …