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Has marriage counseling made things worse?

If you and your spouse have been to marriage counseling to no avail, you're not alone. It happens ...

4 Feminist Lies That Are Making Women Miserable
(MOST POPULAR)

The following article was originally published at The Federalist. Twenty years ago, I wrote my first book about ...
Why Women Test Men

How not to be afraid that your marriage over when you and your spouse fight

A coaching client (and podcast listener) of mine recently sent an email with the following question: How did ...
Tomi Lahren

Tomi Lahren’s anti-men screed demonstrates why dating is dead

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner. Last week, Fox Nation's Tomi Lahren proved in spades ...

It’s not enough for your partner to look good on paper

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner. I can personally vouch for the groundbreaking new study ...

Highly self-aware couples have the most successful marriages

So my daughter is a Two. Known as the Helper, this Enneagram personality profile lends itself well to ...

Living on one income, or on one-and-a-half-incomes, is like losing weight: You just have to focus

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner. For the past several months, I've been an avid ...

College women, take heed: Prioritize marriage and family!

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner.  In the last week alone, I've spoken with three millennial ...

If you’re married to a take-charge, get-‘er-done, tell-it-like-it-is woman, here are 5 rules to remember

Dear Husband, You may or many not know that the majority of my time is spent helping women ...

Americans are trading in their dreams of a happy home in exchange for building wealth

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner. American culture has done a superlative job of convincing ...

Generations Y and Z are in desperate need of a dating manual.
I’m going to write one.

More than half of young people in America are single. That may not seem like a social crisis, ...

How to Know If She’s
Marriage Material

This article originally appeared in the Washington Examiner. We hear plenty in America about eligible men, or men ...

The #1 Type of Relationship Problem Today
(and How to Resolve It)

If my work as an author and a relationship coach has taught me anything, it's that modern marriages ...

If you want his income to go up, yours needs to come down

In my last coaching session, I spoke with a thirty-something wife who desperately wants her husband to be ...

What does it mean to be feminine?

In my last post, I wrote about 7 ways men can unleash their masculine core. I wrote it ...

7 Ways to Unleash Your Masculine Core

The following post is Part 2 of my last post, "The Other Problem That Has No Name." It's ...

The Other Problem That Has No Name

On February 19, 1963, W.W. Norton published Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique, the book that helped launch the ...

Men feed off the energy you provide. Which kind are you supplying?

In the 2010 film Leap Year, the main character Anna (played by Amy Adams) is the quintessential modern ...

Doing this ONE thing dramatically improved my marriage

I don't know about you, but I used to never collect my thoughts. Rather, I shared them. If ...

Dear Men,
Don’t be so wussy with your wife

Listen, Gentlemen, we need to talk. First of all, obviously as a woman I can't relate to what ...

When you’re married, there’s no such thing as “his” money and “her” money

I had a coaching session recently in which a married couple kept referring to their money as "his" ...

America Is Awash in Overmothered Men

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner. The other day on my podcast, I spoke with ...
Happy Family

If you want to succeed inside and outside the home, marry the right man

This article was originally published at the Washington Examiner. I gave an interview the other day about the ...

Never Stop Wooing Your Wife

Let me guess: When you first met your wife, you pulled out all the stops to "get" her. You ...