What if giving up control means getting the love you want?
America is in love with the alpha female. She's the quintessential modern woman: assertive, razor sharp and fully in control. Her success in the marketplace is undeniable, a downright boon to society. But what happens when the alpha woman gets married?
She becomes an alpha wife, of course.
An alpha wife is in charge of everything and everyone. She is, quite simply, the Boss. The problem is, no man wants a boss for a wife. That type of relationship may work for a spell, but it will eventually come crashing down.
"A smart and provocative book for women who’ve been raised to be independent at all costs."
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What People are Saying
“Oh, how I wish I had this book 25 years ago! I’ve been through two marriages and divorces and am embarking on another relationship. ‘She either changes her preferences in a mate, or she changes herself. If she’s smart, she’ll do both’ was an eye-opener for me. Thank you for writing this book.”
“This is a book I will definitely be re-reading when I fall off the wagon. Suzanne Venker articulated very well the psyche of the male mind and the psyche of the female mind that women just take for granted.”
“My women’s lib era mom told me to be alpha. It took me years of knocking that notion out of my head to be successful in relationships. Good for the workplace? Yes. Good for personal life? Heck no!”
Being an alpha wife is not fun, for my husband or for me. But I do thank you for making me realize that I AM AN ALPHA WOMAN. It’s funny for me how a simple quiz made me find the answer why I’m always disappointed with my husband’s actions. Now I know he’s not the problem. I am.”
What People are Saying
“The words you wrote are better to a man than beer and pizza.”
“It really hits home. BOOM! I'm 100% an alpha wife. And it seems like this book is like: "You're a bitch, but you don't have to be and you both can be happy.” I definitely need to keep this book close by.”
“Oh, how I wish I had this book 25 years ago! I've been through two marriages and divorces and am embarking another relationship. 'She either changes her preference in a mate, or she changes herself. If she's smart, she'll do both' was an eye opener for me. Thank you for writing this book.”
"You are doing a heroic thing. Thank you for putting your gifts at the betterment of humanity and helping women embrace authentic femininity and rebuilding emasculated men from the war on men in this culture."