Marriage & Relationship Coaching Life is hard. Love should be the easy part.
"Best. Advice. EVER!" - Kathleen
Looking for long-term coaching? Book your FREE 30-minute call now. And yes, I coach women and men.
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When you got married, things were perfect. You were both "in love," and life was good. Then, somewhere along the line, everything changed. She changed. Or maybe he did. Either which way, now your relationship feels, well, hard.
The wife or husband you once knew seems to have disappeared. She argues with you all the time and is always on edge. He stonewalls or shuts down or retreats to the TV. Your sex life sucks.
What if I told you you have the power to turn it all around? All you're missing are the tools you need to sustain love, the very ones you haven't had permission to access. In a culture in which equality reins, the glorious differences between women and men that make love work have vanished. I will help you bring them back.
The secret to lasting love rests in the masculine-feminine dance. Once you master it, your relationship will no longer be difficult. You'll be moving with the biological tide, rather than against it.
You'll be amazed at the results. You'll feel empowered and motivated. You'll be excited about love again. In fact, you'll think you've hit the marriage jackpot.
Many of my clients find me as a result of reading my 2017 book, The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage, or my more recent book, Women Who Win at Love. It does help to have read those books before signing up for a session, but it's not a requirement.
But if you haven't read my work, you should know that I'm not a passive coach. I want to hear your story, but I will not say in response, "And how does that make you feel?" I offer concrete feedback, as well as practical solutions that work. I'm passionate about helping you solve your relationship problems, but you must be ready to hear the kinds of things most people won't say.
I'll be here when you are.
"I'm on Day 2 of your theory, and you're absolutely right: the problem
vanishes overnight." - Kimberly
For private coaching, here are some common areas of concern.
- Should I marry him/her?
- My husband/wife blames me for all of our problems!
- Money is a serious source of tension in our marriage.
- Why does my husband spend so much time in the basement or in front of the TV?
- Our sex life sucks.
- My wife doesn't respect me.
- I'm the breadwinner in our marriage, and I don't want to be. I feel like my husband is my child instead of my partner.
- Help! We're on the verge of divorce.
Or simply learn:
- How the masculine/feminine dynamic is designed to create peace and harmony
- The vast differences between women and men
- Why your wife nags
- Why your husband shuts down
If you want IMMEDIATE results in your relationship, I can help via phone or using live video screen share. Don't waste another moment being miserable in your marriage or relationship!
“We both really enjoyed our session with you. We thought you were tremendous!”
– Evan and Kimberly
How Marriage Coaching Differs from Marriage Counseling
| Marriage Counseling | Marriage Coaching |
|---|---|
| Have patients with whom they diagnose | Have clients with whom they identify |
| Act as authority figures | Act as collaborators who’ve “been there, done that” |
| Sessions run 50 minutes, then clock goes off | Sessions run an hour and occasionally go over |
| No contact between sessions | Access to Coach between sessions via WhatsApp |
| Focuses on upbringing/past trauma | Focuses on present and future |
| Can promote blame and/or encourage divorce | Promotes personal accountability |
| Talk-oriented | Action-oriented |
| No option to revisit what was discussed in sessions | Option to record Skype sessions to review what was discussed |
"My session with Suzanne was enormously helpful in deciding whether or not to stay with my boyfriend. She is an amazing and patient listener and not afraid to tell you what you need to hear, especially that which the culture will never tell you!"
— Lily
How Does It Work?
“Counseling was a joke compared to the cut-to-the-chase content of this book. I read it twice and then gave it to my wife, who read it in its entirety. Two days later, she had a plan to stay married. She said she found it ironic that she had to hear the truth from someone like her and she really didn't like it; however, she would keep the book very close to her for reference. Married life has been good since then and getting better every day. I am so happy I came across this book. It saved my marriage! Suzanne Venker, you're my hero!”
