Marriage & Relationship Coaching I will help you master the dance.

Dating sucks.


Never before has there been so much confusion over who's supposed to do what in a relationship or even how to go about building one. Never before have there been so many hurdles to face. With no rules to follow, every relationship feels like it has to be negotiated from scratch.

What do I do when I do find someone? When is it too soon to have sex? What if he or she only texts and never calls? Can a long-distance relationship work? What if we're not politically aligned?  

If you want to be successfully married, you must learn how to date with intentionality. If you are currently in a relationship, I will help you navigate the muddy waters —via one session or six—so you don't waste time with someone who's not a match. 

Let's get started!

Life's too short to suffer in a mediocre marriage.

Let me guess: At the beginning, things were great. You were both "in love," and life was good. Then, somewhere along the line, everything changed. She changed. Or maybe he did. Either which way, now your relationship feels, well, hard. 

Believe me, I get it. I, too, once wondered how much of the conflict in my marriage was a result of something I'm doing or something my husband was doing. It was a constant chicken-and-egg scenario that would make my head spin.

Where is the instruction manual, I'd wonder, on how to be peacefully married?

I certainly couldn't use my parents' model. And so, I had to figure it out via trial and error. Lots of error. And that process resulted in my 2017 memoir/self-help book, The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage: HOW LOVE WORKS, where I get real about finding my feminine and using it to bring out the best in my man. Now I help other women do the same. 

At the end of the day, what most couples lack are the tools needed to sustain love, the very tools they haven't been encouraged to access. In a culture in which equality reins, the glorious differences between women and men that make love work have vanished.

I will help you bring them back.

For marriage coaching, here are some common areas of concern:

  • My wife is impossible to please!
  • Money conflicts are ruining our marriage.
  • Why does my husband spend so much time in the basement or in front of the TV?
  • Our sex life sucks.
  • My wife doesn't respect me.
  • I feel like my husband is my child instead of my partner.

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