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Welcome. I'm Suzanne Venker, the author of five books on marriage and the family and a certified relationship coach. I empower women (and men!) to embrace sex differences and to understand how this asymmetry is designed to make relationships work.
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What happened to chivalry?
By Suzanne Venker
A friend of mine whose mother died recently was going through her parents’ memorabilia and unearthed a Western Union telegram from 1954 that her father sent her mother just before they married. Here’s what it said: