HOW TO BE A WIFE: 7 Secret Steps to a Peaceful & Passionate Relationship with Your Man

You're just 7 steps away from having the peace and passion you crave.

Sound too good to be true? It isn't.

So many women today are at a loss about how to love their man, or how to bring out the best in him. And why wouldn't they be? They can't know what they've never been told or what they've never seen modeled.

Take, for example, Laura—who came to me when she was just about ready to give up on her marriage. Laura felt she'd married the wrong man and was losing hope she’d be able to make her marriage work since she’d already spent years trying to figure things out, with no results.

I assured her the chances were slim that she had, in fact, married the wrong man. Most men make good husbands and live to see their wives happy.

"Then why does he prefer to do anything but spend time with me?"

It's likely because the behaviors you exude are repelling him rather than attracting him, I told her. I then worked with Laura to show her how to be the kind of wife a man raves about and can't wait to come home to at night.

I taught her what it means to respect her husband and what this does to the soul of a man.

I told her how important it is to stop directing his traffic and to learn how to receive instead.

I explained the importance of being vulnerable and playful—and of making sure she makes time to relax so she can bring her best self to the table.

She'd never heard these things, she said. Excited for a new plan, she quickly began putting it to action. Almost overnight, she said, her marriage felt different. Her husband was completely responsive to the things she was doing. I assured her that her husband hadn't changed at all. She had, and that made all the difference.

How long have you been living like Laura, trying to figure this wife thing out on your own?

You don't have to shoot blanks anymore. Learn the 7 secret steps to a peaceful and passionate relationship with your man—whether you're married or in a relationship—and you'll never look back. When you know the words and the behaviors that speak to a man, conflict naturally erodes—and you'll create the relationship you crave.

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