6 Ways Men Can Become Emasculation-Proof

Not long ago I received an email from a man with a simple question: Is there a way for a guy to be “emasculation-proof”? How can men (even young men) become secure in their identity so as not to become emasculated in their relationships?

So we’re clear, to be emasculated means to be made weak or ineffective. In a marriage or relationship, if a man is emasculated it means he tends to take his cues from his wife or girlfriend and ultimately bends to her will.

But the short answer is Yes, it is absolutely possible for men to become emasculation-proof. In fact, it’s critical men do if they want to be in a healthy relationship that serves their needs as much as it does women’s.

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Sadly, this is harder than ever for modern men to do, as they’ve been systematically feminized for decades. I say “systematically” because the shift in male identity has been no accident. It’s a direct result of:

  • the rise in single motherhood and father-absent homes
  • an educational system dominated by women
  • the feminist movement, which insists men are unnecessary or even harmful to women
  • the introduction of the New Age sensitive guy who’s presumably superior to the macho man

All of these 20th century events and ideas led to a meteoric rise of soft males. Goodbye John Wayne and Clint Eastwood. Say hello to the beta male.

To be sure, male nature played a role in helping this transformation along. Men, as a rule, long for women’s approval and admiration and want to please the woman they love. And since the home tends to be the wife’s domain (no matter how much men and women share domestic duties), husbands often take direction from their wives on this front. That isn’t new.

What is new is that women have been groomed to believe men and society owe them. As a result, women either knowingly or unknowingly pull rank in their relationships—which makes the relationship hugely imbalanced.

Of course, not all women do this. But they’re the exception rather than the rule.

The reason they’re not the rule is because we in the West encourage women and girls to put themselves first at all times, as though they’re superior to men. We consistently put women’s needs, desires and rights above men’s needs, desires and rights. The notion that men even have rights eludes us.

This article, entitled “She Isn’t High Maintenance. You’re Just Low Effort,” is a consummate example.

“She deserves someone who’ll treat her right even when she makes a mistake. She deserves someone who’ll try constantly to prove his love, his admiration and his commitment to her. You don’t get to be mediocre.”

This mental conditioning is precisely what modern women are exposed to every day. They’ve absorbed a steady drip of girl power since the day they were born, and the result is the emasculation of men.

So how does the average guy who’s been groomed to wear skinny jeans and to wear his emotions on his sleeve and to do the diapers and the dishes (relax: I’m not suggesting men not do diapers and dishes) and to say “we’re pregnant” instead of “my wife is pregnant” retain his identity and avoid emasculation?

If you’re the parent of a son, you can do your part by empowering your boys to have just as much of a voice as girls do. And if you’re a grown man, well, wake up. Despite what the culture teaches, you matter just as much as women do. Don’t allow the equality narrative to tell you otherwise.

Here are 6 ways to avoid becoming emasculated in your marriage or relationship:

  1. Always treat a woman with respect, but don’t cave to her demands. Better yet, avoid demanding women altogether.
  2. If your wife or girlfriend says something with which you disagree, or if she wants to do something you don’t want to do, say so.
  3. You have as much say in so-called “women’s issues” as women do—because they’re not women’s issues. They’re human issues that almost always involve men and children. Know your mind and speak it.
  4. Recognize that your desire to prove you’re a New Age man (rather than like your old-fashioned, “gendered” parents) will likely undermine your needs as a man. Don’t be overly accommodating and wind up frustrated. You will almost certainly lash out in other ways from stifling your true self.
  5. Learn to say no to a woman.
  6. Retain your male friends and make use of male spaces.

At the end of the day, in any marriage or relationship there’s almost always one personality that’s stronger than the other. In the 21st century, it is far more common for that person to be the woman. And men can respond in one of two ways. They can roll over, or they can stand tall.

And I promise you: one of those will not end well.

Suzanne Venker

Suzanne Venker is an author, columnist and radio host known as The Feminist Fixer. She helps free women from feminism so they can find lasting love with men. Suzanne's newest book, WOMEN WHO WIN at Love: How to Build a Relationship That Lasts, will be published October 2019.

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  1. Brychan says

    The problem for most men now, is that standing tall usually means standing alone. It’s really become necessary for men to develop some game, in order to be able to properly read and manage their relationships. Even then, finding a woman who hasn’t been infected by feminism is really difficult these days, and feminist or not, nothing offers any protection from divorce rape. Any solution improving relationships has to include an overhaul of the family court system, or this is largely a waste of time.

    • Suzanne Venker says

      See, I disagree w that. Family courts are a mess, no question. But keeping people from landing there in the first place will help. And that requires men and women both being proactive. That’s the reason for this post.

      • Deoxy says

        “That’s the reason for this post.”

        The stuff you list in this post will, with many women, get you to family court MUCH quicker – a large majority of divorces are initiated by women, and nothing in your list will protect from that.

        • Jack says

          Learn to play mind games. Most women do them every day. Become a mystery, unpredictable. Have excuses. Note that you just don’t want to do some things. And remember, if you keep being a soy boy, she is going to leave you anyway, because she has no respect for you.

  2. Andi R says

    Hi Suzanne-
    I was reading the comments when I realized that men have been contributing (literally) to the increased use of Artificial Insemination and the increase of single mothers by selling their sperm.

    Possibly thinking they are ‘helping’ some poor couple rather than grasping the long-term effects of their minimal participation.

    Feminism discounts men, however it is amazing to me how many women want children without involving men. Obviously, without sperm, no children.

    If men want to be valued they need to stop ‘contributing’ to this problem. Not unlike women not having sex before marriage.

    Granted, the average donor is usually in his 20’s, so educating boys BEFORE they become men is paramount.

    I’m sure there are many more points to mine on this topic.

  3. David says

    You can always go Filipino! Some of my friends and many white conservative guys marry them because they have the values men are looking for. Western women to them are a waste of time and effort.

    • Kathy Kinsley says

      My cousin married a Filipino woman. The family welcomed her, she moved here, they had a daughter, and shortly after she got her citizenship, she left them. Luckily the daughter was fairly old by then and didn’t need her mother as much.

    • jack burton says

      My lovely Filipino wife and I celebrated our 45th anniversary this past February. It has been a wonderful trip together from being two young kids to two senior citizens. The best way to meet a quality Filipina is to get to know a Filipino family in your local area. Every one has a sister/cousin/niece back home who would probably enjoy meeting and getting to know an American potential more-than-friend. And because she comes pre-qualified by virtue of her family connections you know you are not getting into a bad situation with a scammer.

  4. Max Bell says

    the problem with the six ways is that in reality disagreeing with or saying no to a woman presents the risk of her filing false sexual assault or other charges with police, leading to loss of liberty and career and child access. until such time as the legal system actually starts caring about due process for men again (ie: never), marriage and long-term relationships are largely a matter of the male losing his freedom and autonomy with no real recourse. and unless the male knows the woman extremely well both are therefore bad risks to take.

    • David says

      I don’t know. I’m not in a relationship but i have used some of these in my experience in dating and such. For instance, I remember a girl wanting to go out with herto bars during the work week. I told her i usually dont because of work, big projects I was working on where i had to be alert but that i would be happy to meet up on Friday. This happened a few times. When Friday rolled around, I called her to see if she liked to meet me. She responded with “I’m too busy working.” I never heard from her again. I can name other countless examples but this is a classic. These women have been groomed by the feminists to get their way. Its any wonder why we see the princess mentality in so many. When they know they cant control a man, they up and leave and try to shame the man saying “No woman will ever have you.”

      • Steverino says

        You won the encounter by not getting tangled up with a silly party girl. And, really, hanging out at bars is boring.

      • Dan says

        Women used to sometimes have a poster, on their wall, that said, “I’m looking for the prince, because I’ve been kissing way too many frogs”, something like that. I laugh as hard as I can, when I see this and similar posters. This is a very clear intent, a wavelength sent out to the Universe, to be kissing way too many frogs. These women put themselves in a loop, of kissing frogs. And then they talk about the prince, which is an unattainable ideal that no man can live up to, so they guarantee they not only kiss a lot of frogs, they also cannot find a decent guy, who may not be a prince, but is decent.

        This woman did you a major favor. Be thankful. There is a magic word for your situation. NEXT! Move on. She didn’t divorcerape you, she didn’t take half your assets, she didn’t give your children massive emotional damage, she didn’t sleep around on you with Chad and Tyrone and the entire New Orleans Saints football team (no exaggeration, I heard of one who did that, years ago), she didn’t make your life a living hell, she didn’t… she just left. You need to get down on your knees, and give thanks to GOD that this woman is out of your life, and give thanks to your neural networks for protecting you from vampires like her. Celebrate in some way. And improve yourself, so you don’t attract these poisonous snakes any more.

    • Joe says

      The idea, I believe, is to employ these tactics from the beginning. Trying to turn a ship once its reached speed is damn hard.
      I came upon the redpill years ago after a divorce rape. I don’t have problems with women anymore because if they become a problem I dump them and move on.

    • Donald says

      the legal system doesn’t work. Even Jesus said not to mess with it. What you most need to do, is to realize that your entire world is a direct reflection, and creation, of your intent. Neville Goddard and Joseph Murphy, among others, have marvelous lectures you can hear on youtube, free. Their books are good. Now getting into their world does take some personal growth. When you get to the realization that everything that happens in your life is there because you, at some level, created it, you will be at the level these guys talk about. There are courses for learning this, also. Avatar is one. Access Consciousness is another. The Silva method is another. Psi World was one I took years ago, it may still be around. Instead of complaining about your lack of power- which only perpetuates the lack of power- start your journey into your power. Your life and everything in it are the direct reflection of your intent. Even the upper levels of the Chinese and Japanese martial arts go directly into this. Also, realize that the women you attract are a direct mirror of your self-image, your creation of intent about what you deserve. So thank those nasty hoes, for being mirrors to the junk in your subconscious mind, and helping you to grow. yes. Those nasty hoes are spiritual masters, helping you to grow. Once you accept that, your entire world shifts. Even that psychopathic female supervisor, at work, you know, the one who is always finding fault with everybody’s work, is only a mirror to your own internal energy state. Think of life as a school. Master your lessons early.

      At some point, you’ll look around, and all those nasty people you used to hate- are gone. Just gone. You moved on from their school. And they have no counterparts in your current world. And THAT is the lesson you came to learn. Why put off learning it? If you don’t like the movie of your life, playing on the screen, CHANGE THE DVD. It’s that simple. I don’t watch Chuckie movies. I switched to Dances with Wolves- yeah, there’s some violence, but it’s better. Then I switched to comedies. Life is ultimately a comedy. Laughter is the best medicine. That, and sex with a committed partner. Yeah. Where it just gets better and better, over the years. And seeing your children grow up, and make fantastic decisions, because they COPY YOU. yes, that’s a harsh discipline for a parent, realizing they can’t do stupid stuff any more, because their kids will copy them. And there is nothing more heart-filling, than seeing that first grandkid, born to your kid, who is in a stable, happy marriage.

  5. Jon Boy says

    “Don’t be overly accommodating and wind up frustrated.”

    That’s me. I grew up with a dominant mother. She used our fear of setting her off against us to secure absolute control. She “groomed” me into a little gentleman, paining myself to be attentive and as vigilant as possible. Some things were old fashioned like getting my sister’s door, but I was doing dishes, vacuuming, dusting, etc. while also having all the yard work and car care responsibilities. She dictated how I fixed my hair and how I trimmed my nails. She even tried to teach me how to shave once when it dawned on her that she’d better let dad handle that.

    I really thought all this was actually good and shaping me into a good man. When I got married, I gave my wife all the power and freedom I could because, in my mind, I thought this would ensure her happiness. I thought she would love me and shower me with grateful affection. I imagined she would respond with little thoughtful gestures of taking care of me.

    Nothing could’ve been further from the truth.

    We now live in a sexless marriage. She seems apposed to doing anything to for me i.e. my laundry, my lunch or even having dinner ready. Our house is a disaster because I simply can’t clean up after a wife and two daughters every day after coming home from a fulltime job. Speaking of which, I was working a second part-time job to follow the Ramsey plan for almost three years only to fail and give up. She simply wouldn’t commit to any budget we “agreed” upon. I still come home to find fast food bags and trash all over the place and I feel powerless to stop it.

    I want out. I love my daughters and I really don’t want a broken home for them, but I can’t do it anymore. Our lack of intimacy alone leads me through a daily storm of temptation and spiritual/emotional attack. No, I don’t technically have to loose that fight, but I do. My mind tells me that she’s wrong to treat me like this, but my heart points the blame at myself like I’m just not good enough at this husband stuff; I’m just not a good lover; I’m just not what a man is supposed to be.

    This article hits home for me. It makes sense and seems to connect the dots for me. When I left home, I was organized and disciplined. I was rock climbing, moutain biking, scuba diving and studying hard. I was a manly man with a solid plan. Today I don’t even recognize that guy. I feel like I don’t know anything. I think this article helps, but I want to understand more. I need some kind of salvation because I’m totally lost right now.

    • John Boy says

      Just read the “pants” article. It answers a few questions and raises a few others. I’m not so sure the common princess can handle a man having anything go his way when they disagree. Lol, next time she asks where I want to go for dinner, I’m gonna tell her and when she says “No. I’m not in the mood for that.”, I’m not making any more suggestions. I’m just going tell her “You asked. That’s my answer.”

    • Rabbi says

      @John Boy
      search and read The Rational Male. It will give you the information you need to start rebuilding your life

  6. JAMES SOLBAKKEN says

    “Learn to say no to a woman.”

    In the same way and for the same reason a parent must learn to say “no” to their 2 year old.

    Forgive me if I decline the offer to be married to a 2 year old, especially a 2 year old with a lawyer and the law to back her up.

  7. Scott says

    Interesting article. I am in the middle of extricating myself from a very similar mess. I have been married for 21.5 years, together for 26. I have two great kids, and I have worked like a beaver for all of those years. I have invested well and developed a decent real estate portfolio, while my wife has not worked outside of the home for 16+ years. Marriage is very simply put, a terrible, no good, extremely shitty deal. The sense of entitlement is absolutely sickening. The result of this is that I get to give 50% of everything, and she contributed a little less than zero percent. She is a great mother, but she was and is not a single parent. I was very heavily involved at all times. Marriage is largely an obsolete institution. I wish it wasn’t, but my life has been hell. I have been separated for 4 months. There is ABSOLUTELY NO WAY IN HELL I WOULD EVER RETURN.

    • Harry says

      Dude, you gotta restructure your subconscious mind beliefs. Neville Goddard and Joseph Murphy’s lectures are free, on youtube.

  8. StanU says

    Relationships outside of marriage, with vigilant birth control, are the only viable relationships for American men to have with women.

    It’s a hostile legal and social environment. The toxicity of Family Court is now the norm on college campuses and almost was the law of the land per the ABA, but for pushback from sane fa tons within that organization: https://reason.com/2019/08/13/affirmative-consent-aba-american-bar/ . Very nice to suggest deck chair rearrangement on the Titanic, but obviously better to urge men to the front of the lifeboat line. No more paleolithic chivalry – it’s long dead.

  9. Don says

    Nancy Reagan had it right. “Just say no!”
    Red Pill men know that women are constantly sh..testing them.
    And they… just say no.
    Look at the men most American women go for- deeply flawed bad boys, with anger management problems, and so on. These guys are not accommodating, not at all, and women eat it up like it was candy.

    There is an easy way to deal with women are are controlling. Just walk away. Leave. Just slip out the back, jack. The older men get, the better choices they have, in women.

    The smartest thing a young man, under 30, can do, is to get that schooling done, get a job where he can learn, improve himself, improve his mind, follow Napoleon Hill’s 16 principles of success, and spend only enough time with women to get comfortable knowing what to say and do. Guys in their 20’s know to go out with older women, say at least 10 years older, who are available. It makes the women feel great, and they learn a lot. Women under 25 in the USA are unbelievably unaware.

    About the age of 30 or so, men don’t have to put up with the putdowns they got in high school and college. The balance of power shifts. And it gets more and more favorable for men. If they don’t want children, there is no reason whatsoever to get married. Consider that after about the age of 30, the number of women seeking marriage starts skyrocketing. The number of men seeking, who aren’t already married, starts tanking. By 40+, there are at least five decent women looking, for every man. It just gets more and more favorable.

    I was married to a demanding woman, who thought she had much more than what she actually had. I bided my time. She started using ultimatums. I laid dog, just waited. She moved out, thinking I’d follow her. Uhhh, no thanks. She didn’t realize that all her bitching made her far less valuable. She was in the negative value, high maintenance phase, and couldn’t figure it out. It was more cost effective to abandon her, than try to work with her to change, and she had no interest in changing anyway. Once she’s out, change the locks, ideally move, and keep your cell number unlisted. That woman never could find another guy willing to commit to her.

    If you are stuck in a relationship, just do what women do- become irrational and unpredictable. Have moods, though avoid violence. She can do violence to you with impunity, but you have no impunity. Do odd stuff. What would a crazy person do? Any woman over 30 with brains- they do exist- understands that she is very unlikely to do better than you- if you show up to work, stay off drugs and alcohol, spend your money wisely, and so on. They also understand that starting over is very expensive, in energy, and so on. Those women without brains you have to gaslight. Good reason to avoid women without brains, for anything beyond one night stands. Just be goofy enough that she breaks it off- and then it’s broken. If you try to break it off, she will take the nastiest revenge she can imagine. You could develop emotional problems, you know, start crying for no reason, be a soy boy.

    If you have kids, and you have a woman like this, you have a problem. But you can still have moods, and be unpredictable. Let your environment be your guide. If you pay attention, guidance will show up. This is mushin, living in the moment, as one with the flow.

  10. Pete says

    Is there a way for a guy to be “emasculation-proof”? How can men (even young men) become secure in their identity so as not to become emasculated in their relationships?— Yes, there is. Make a picture in your mind, of your ideal state. Feel it real, at least twice a day, for five minutes.

    So we’re clear, to be emasculated means to be made weak or ineffective. In a marriage or relationship, if a man is emasculated it means he tends to take his cues from his wife or girlfriend and ultimately bends to her will.—–There is no feminist in “team”. Women have no respect for a man with no boundaries. That’s the reason they shittest men all the time- they want to know their boundaries.

    But the short answer is Yes, it is absolutely possible for men to become emasculation-proof. In fact, it’s critical men do if they want to be in a healthy relationship that serves their needs as much as it does women’s.—Wisdom speaks.

    ~

    Sadly, this is harder than ever for modern men to do, as they’ve been systematically feminized for decades. I say “systematically” because the shift in male identity has been no accident. It’s a direct result of:

    the rise in single motherhood and father-absent homes
    an educational system dominated by women
    the feminist movement, which insists men are unnecessary or even harmful to women
    the introduction of the New Age sensitive guy who’s presumably superior to the macho man
    —–right on, sister! and they have NO RESPECT for the NA sensitive guy, either. None. They walk all over them.

    All of these 20th century events and ideas led to a meteoric rise of soft males. Goodbye John Wayne and Clint Eastwood. Say hello to the beta male.
    —-being a beta cuck sucks. It’s really bad. I did a vision quest after my second divorce from
    a thot. Best thing I ever did. If a woman wasn’t 100% what I wanted, I set it up so she broke it off. That way it’s final. If they don’t like me, great- as in sales, the magic word is NEXT! I tell young men they have to get their game up- do well in school, take a job, and do great stuff in it SO THEY KNOW HOW. Ignore women until they are 30 or so. Then the power balance shifts. All you gotta do is decide to be an alpha.
    Nobody else will challenge that. Ask yourself what an alpha would do, and do that. Remember that feminists are land mines. As soon as you hear that feminist crap, leave. Ghost them. Don’t bother giving them feedback, just say “it’s not you, it’s me”, and it is, because you are the alpha. If you need action, there are plenty of older women looking. America is going to become a lot more Hispanic, black, and asian, because non-religious white chicks are selling crappy goods. Creo que es un idea grande, por que las mujeres espanyolas son la mejor!
    To be sure, male nature played a role in helping this transformation along. Men, as a rule, long for women’s approval and admiration and want to please the woman they love. And since the home tends to be the wife’s domain (no matter how much men and women share domestic duties), husbands often take direction from their wives on this front. That isn’t new.
    What is new is that women have been groomed to believe men and society owe them. As a result, women either knowingly or unknowingly pull rank in their relationships—which makes the relationship hugely imbalanced.

    Of course, not all women do this. But they’re the exception rather than the rule.

    The reason they’re not the rule is because we in the West encourage women and girls to put themselves first at all times, as though they’re superior to men. We consistently put women’s needs, desires and rights above men’s needs, desires and rights. The notion that men even have rights eludes us.

    This article, entitled “She Isn’t High Maintenance. You’re Just Low Effort,” is a consummate example.

    “She deserves someone who’ll treat her right even when she makes a mistake. She deserves someone who’ll try constantly to prove his love, his admiration and his commitment to her. You don’t get to be mediocre.”

    This mental conditioning is precisely what modern women are exposed to every day. They’ve absorbed a steady drip of girl power since the day they were born, and the result is the emasculation of men.

    So how does the average guy who’s been groomed to wear skinny jeans and to wear his emotions on his sleeve and to do the diapers and the dishes (relax: I’m not suggesting men not do diapers and dishes) and to say “we’re pregnant” instead of “my wife is pregnant” retain his identity and avoid emasculation?

    If you’re the parent of a son, you can do your part by empowering your boys to have just as much of a voice as girls do. And if you’re a grown man, well, wake up. Despite what the culture teaches, you matter just as much as women do. Don’t allow the equality narrative to tell you otherwise.

  11. Ernest says

    Always treat a woman with respect, but don’t cave to her demands. Better yet, avoid demanding women altogether……respect for others flows from respect forout f self. You cannot respect others well, without first respecting yourself.

    If your wife or girlfriend says something with which you disagree, or if she wants to do something you don’t want to do, say so……………..remember she is shittesting you every day, to see if you maintain your boundaries. Welcome the alert, and maintain.

    You have as much say in so-called “women’s issues” as women do—because they’re not women’s issues. They’re human issues that almost always involve men and children. Know your mind and speak it…………Amen, sistah, now you preachin’ my sermon!

    Recognize that your desire to prove you’re a New Age man (rather than like your old-fashioned, “gendered” parents) CAN AND DOES undermine your needs as a man. Don’t be overly accommodating and wind up frustrated. You will almost certainly lash out in other ways from stifling your true self.
    Learn to say no to a woman…………….Women like difficult guys, which is why they stay with bad boys. New Age BS is BS.

    Retain your male friends and make use of male spaces……. yeah, for your sanity.

    Clint Eastwood is a good model. he never said much, did he. He was a mystery. Women eat that stuff up like it was candy. Never reveal too much about yourself. Wash your psychic laundry with your buddies, never with a woman. Stay unpredictable. Study how bad boys do it. No need to be abusive, but learn from the masters. Women keep coming back to abusive bad boys, because they know they have the magic V that will reform him. If they do reform him, they lose interest, of course. Watch your environment, grasshopper, it is full of lessons for the aware, who PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT IS GOING ON.

    Remember that the mass media is mostly lies. I go to spiritual trainings, which are about 80% attended by women, usually over 35, and I believe every one of them that isn’t married is looking for their “soul mate”, desperately, sure he’s just around the corner. I don’t tell them you get what you get, and work with that, they aren’t open to wisdom. Even with a wedding ring on, I get approached. What is this? Opportunity. Be Clint Eastwood. Say little. Ask questions so they talk. Pay attention, there is learning in what they say. Practice being mysterious, an alpha male.

    Some years ago, at a training for work, I became the alpha for a woman who was rather cute. Bright. And drank more alcohol than I imagined possible, so I had to disengage. What did I do? I just disengaged the alpha, showed my weakness, acted Beta, and she broke it off. No stalking by her, no endless texts, no nothin. Just gone.

    You are in a buyer’s market, if you are over about 30. Women are more and more in a seller’s market. If you have a bitchy wife, and can’t get out, explore being sick, for a while. You’ll learn a lot. If you can’t set healthy boundaries, then let the sickness set them for you. Many do this unconsciously, already, all disease has a psychological component. learn to play the same mind games women play. Explore the unknown. Be mysterious. Be unpredictable. If you are stuck in a bad relationship, there is no reason you can’t explore the same kind of gaslighting and mind games she is. Channel all that frustration into creativity. Be really amorous one day, and totally desexed another day. Start to meditate, this helps a lot. do what you need to do, and note it is for your mental health. Smile mysteriously, for no reason.

    She doesn’t respect you because you are too predictable. Become less predictable. Go to the gym, and get hot. Greet other women in the street, cheerfully, when you’re with her. Be as irrational as she is, so she is too off balance to play head games. If you are as stuck as you think you are, at least have fun with it.

    And if you really need out, ask the Universe for help. I got a really crappy first wife out of my life, AND kept custody of our child, AND paid no support- not a dime, AND let her pay part of the court costs for divorce, by asking the Universe to get that woman out of my life. I did a far better job raising our child, who chose far better than i did, and has kids of her own now. I said, “Universe, please get this woman out of my life, as fast as possible, at minimal cost.” It took about 6 months, and she did all the work- she found a boyfriend stupid enough to marry her. I paid for the lawyer, ok, and some court costs. Learn to work with the invisible world of the spirit, of intent. How would you FEEL if you had the perfect situation? FEEL that feeling several times a day, because FEELINGS CREATE REALITY. Stop feeling powerless, you’ve mastered that lesson, or you wouldn’t be reading this.

    Women do not respond to rational reasoning. They are mostly emotional. Become mysterious. That will get her squirrel cage mind going. Let her spend her energy wondering what is going on with you. Learn wilderness survival, so you know you can walk out on a whim. When she feels that you don’t feel trapped any more, she will start getting nervous. If she thinks you are insane enough to walk about and just be homeless, with no income, for a while, you have tipped the power balance.

    I knew a guy whose father was regularly punched and beaten by his wife. Of course the father could do nothing in the courts. And this was 1976. He was too much in his rational mind. Had he been smart enough to go into his irrational mind, and simply ask questions, like “how do I make her fear me walking away?” or “How do I start doing really irrational stuff that worries her?”, or asked how he could look like he’s starting to go insane, maybe even just wander out in the woods without telling her where he’s going, and sleeping overnight. Build an underground shelter, if you like it warm, and camo it up good. Just vanish. Rational solutions have their place, but the irrational ones are ever so much more fun.

    You have all the control you could ever want, no matter what the external circumstances. Yes, there are men getting child support, from women- which shows it is possible, even in our crummy kangaroo courts.

    You have the mind. You can ask questions, pay attention to the answers, and act on them, and learn from feedback. And down the road, you will realize you put yourself in your crappy situation, to learn from it.

    My ex- that I dumped at under $1000 in court costs, and kept custody, tried to contact me, a few years ago, through my now grown kid. I just said no. They will slingback, like this. Once they overstep the bounds, banish them from your kingdom. They need this learning.

    I don’t like slingbacks. So my phone is listed under another name, I google myself once a week and threaten a lawsuit for any website citing my personal info, which is healthy anyway.

    Remember also that all of life is just a stage that YOU CREATED, to teach you lessons, no matter what you see. The more hopeless it appears, the stronger the lesson you are teaching yourself.

    Start asking open questions.
    How can I just start appearing irrational, to this THOT?
    How can I set boundaries, and maintain them, starting small?
    How can I say less with my mouth, and more with my posture?

    That ex that left me said she wanted a man who would control her. her words. I didnt’ control her enough, and SHE TOLD ME THAT. She is estranged from her husband, now, and lives in homeless shelters, hopelessly bipolar. her own children won’t talk to her. She chose this path. Not my problem.

    You could start today. One Saturday, get up early, and go out for an hour walk, without saying anything, before she gets up. She won’t know where you are. Your cell will of course be off. Get home, smiling. She’ll be nervous, and ask. You just say you needed a walk. have urgent tasks to do, that require you to be gone, without warning. And always a good excuse. This puts her off balance. Decide you need a day off hiking in the woods, for your mental health, give no advance warning, you could leave a note, and just vanish. She shittests you because you allow her to believe you are totally sane. if she gets the idea you are a bit unstable, she’ll back off some. Yeah. It works.

  12. Harrison says

    The best way to deal with problems is to never enter them in the first place.

    Would you go swimming in a cesspool, or a sewage lagoon? No?
    OK. Getting involved with a feminist is swimming in a cesspool.
    Get that in your head. if you find a woman you’re with is a feminist, start playing mind games, so she breaks it off. If you have a lot of sex drive, hey, that’s why God invented porn.
    Be the beta, weak, indecisive, unstable, and so on. Let her cut it off, and it’s done.

    Other people treat you the way you broadcast you want to be treated. Welcome them as spiritual teachers, which they are, welcome the feedback, and change yourself. Men start out as the statue, getting crapped on. Around the age of 30 or so, they become the pigeon. Talk to guys who go to their high school reunions, getting hit on by women who were so hot and didn’t give them the time of day, in high school. It’s a rush. Relationships are like glue, choose very carefully. if she doesn’t like her father, dump her as fast as you can. This is bad. Look at her mother. That’s what you’ll be married to, in 20-25 years. Unless her daughter is deeply spiritual.

    Feel any butterflies in your stomach? Listen to them. One butterfly might be screaming at you, “GET OUT! GET AWAY FROM THIS WOMAN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!” Listen to that. Run it through your gut. You might need to do just that, especially if the message is often repeated.

    If she’s sleeping with a lot of guys, she has a habit she won’t break. Go to the american society of dowsers website, and learn how to dowse. The free download Letter to Robin teaches it, too. Learn to use that intuition of yours, it will keep you out of a lot of trouble.

    Put a very clear picture of exactly the stuff you want in a partner. Write a list. This helps focus. You may not get everything on the list, but you’ll be very alert to women that are more appropriate for you.

    Remember that the 10’s will sleep around on you, because they can. Do what Leonardo Dicaprio does- enjoy them for a short time, and let them move on.

    Honor thyself, with respect. Don’t do what violates your own codes. Pussy is so tempting, from the outside. Once you get in, well, love and respect are so much more important. Learn to walk away from pussy, when your gut tells you to. Just disengage. You are a man, your brain will do this, if you tell it to.

    Tattoos are an indication the woman wants to deal with skin cancer, down the road. If she’s that self-destructive, is she for you? And she kindly labelled herself, to make it easy.

    Feminists sometimes have these gatherings, in the woods, around a fire, where they sacrifice live animals. Don’t believe me. Go walking in the woods, quietly. Scout the woods from an ultralight. I love cats, and when I see they’ve cut up a cat, well, anyway, let’s say only that I don’t get along with feminists. A number of them are into some really wierd occult stuff. That’s probably why they enjoy torturing men so much, they practice first on animals. Feminists who are really into hate, and many of them are, gravitate towards the negative occult, like this. If you are into ligotage, and I am not, you want to really, really trust that woman. There are women who have carved up men, who were stupid enough to get vulnerable like this. Andy Warhol was stabbed by a woman like this, as one example among many.
    The negative entities they like to summon up thrive on emotions like despair, hopelessness, depression, and so on, which may be why feminists are changing society as they are. They clearly like to see children suffer, and children suffer a lot more now, than they used to, despite the propaganda.

    Start developing yourself spiritually. Help those who need help, when possible, and you have no risk involved. Who are you, really? What does your heart yearn for? When you need to disengage from a totally materialistic woman, the spiritual stuff is fantastically useful. It’s like you’re speaking Hausa to them, or something. You will start attracting a higher grade of women, also. your heart will start talking to you, in feelings, and guidance. You’ll feel better, and happier. All the good stuff in life comes from the spiritual side of life, which is one reason our mass media is so materialistic. They want you dependent on their crap, not running your own life.

    Have more fun. Enjoy yourself. Find what gives you joy. This is like putting up impassable barriers to nasty feminists, and others who would cause you pain. You will find a higher grade of people to be around.

    • David says

      “Feminists sometimes have these gatherings, in the woods, around a fire, where they sacrifice live animals. Don’t believe me. Go walking in the woods, quietly.”

      That’s interesting because I thought feminists would NEVER harm an animal. They respect animals more than they do men and babies. The occult stuff and witchcraft I have heard about but in other forms.

      • Larry says

        I talked to a guy in Vermont, a psychotherapist. He dealt with people who had been horribly abused, in rituals, by people who were upstanding community members, with some secret, most unpleasant hobbies. The stories he heard from his clients were incredibly bone-chilling to me, enough so that I won’t offer details. There is a woman named Kathy O’Brien, who talks about stuff like this, somewhere on youtube. Don Croft, who sounds nuts, talks some about this, at some websites. I enjoy walking in the woods, and I go in with a ghillie suit on. I’ve seen a few things myself. Look at the movie Eyes Wide Shut, carefully. Look at that Britney video where she is in the red dress. Look up David Icke. And you will go down a rabbithole that you cannot imagine. I can’t believe everything they say is real. It’s not easy to separate the wheat from the chaff. The emails on Wikileaks are very interesting, also, most especially the Podesta stuff. As you open your eyes, you realize that the media is at best nasty lies.

      • Ron says

        Pick up a book on remote viewing. Learn it. It’s not difficult. You only need to scan for energy, which is easy. Suit up in some armor of light. Put a layer of invisibility over that. Then start scanning feminists’ energy fields. Don’t do this on a full stomach, as you may vomit. Scanning convicts in prison is less nauseating.

  13. Ken says

    One way to avoid emasculation is to simply avoid marriage. here’s an article that talks about that.

    Where have all the husbands gone?

    That’s a question Peter Lloyd tackles in a series in London’s Daily Mail about Britain’s marriage rate, which is at its lowest level since 1895. “The state of matrimony is not just ailing. It is dying out faster than a mobile phone battery,” Lloyd writes. “For an army of women, Mr. Right is simply not there, no matter how hard they look for him.”

    There was a time when wives respected their husbands. There was a time when wives took care of their husbands as they expected their husbands to take care of them. ////These times are largely gone.

    Things are no better this side of the Atlantic. According to Pew Research Center, the share of American adults who’ve never been married is at an historic high—and men are more likely than women to have never made it down the aisle (23% vs. 17% in 2012).////Interesting.

    What gives? Why are men here and abroad avoiding the altar in spades?

    1. Because they can: Men used to marry to have sex and a family. They married for love, too, but they had to marry the girl before taking her to bed, or at least work really, really hard to wear her down. Those days are gone.

    When more women make themselves sexually available, the pool of marriageable men diminishes. “In a world where women do not say no, the man is never forced to settle down and make serious choices,” writes George Gilder, author of “Men and Marriage.”

    Scoff if you wish. Call me a fuddy-duddy. But how’s that new plan working out?////It’s working out with a lot of Alpha Bad Boys getting more sex than Hugh Hefner, and a lot of Betas avoiding the trap of marriage.

    2. Because there’s nothing in it for them: What exactly does marriage offer men today? “Men know there’s a good chance they’ll lose their friends, their respect, their space, their sex life, their money and — if it all goes wrong — their family,” says Helen Smith, Ph.D., author of “Men on Strike.” “They don’t want to enter into a legal contract with someone who could effectively take half their savings, pension and property when the honeymoon period is over.Men aren’t wimping out by staying unmarried or being commitment phobes. They’re being smart.”

    Unlike women, men lose all power after they say “I do.” Their masculinity dies, too.////Yeah.

    What’s left of it, that is. In the span of just a few decades, America has demoted men from respected providers and protectors of the family to superfluous buffoons. Today’s sitcoms and commercials routinely paint a portrait of the idiot husband whose wife is smarter and more capable than he.////And women wonder why interest in marriage has dropped among men, and dives after the age of 40 or so.

    There was a time when wives respected their husbands. There was a time when wives took care of their husbands as they expected their husbands to take care of them. Or perhaps therein lies the rub. If women no longer expect or even want men to “take care of” them — since women can do everything men can do and better, thank you very much, feminism — perhaps the flipside is the assumption that women don’t need to take care of husbands, either. And if no one’s taking care of anyone, why the hell marry?////Hmmm. Good question!

    For women, the reason is obvious: kids. Eventually most women decide they want children, no matter how long they put it off to focus on their careers. So they often nab the best guy they can find, usually the one with whom they’re currently sleeping, and convince him to get married./////I’ve seen this story many times. And saying she’s on the pill, when she isn’t, is another way to help convince him.

    If the man refuses, we call him, as Smith notes, a “commitment phobe.” But is that fair? Perhaps these men know all too well that women initiate the vast majority of divorces — anywhere from 65-90 percent, depending on demographics. And when they do, they take the kids with them and hang hubby out to dry with the help of a court system that’s heavily stacked in their favor. In the past, Mom got the kids because she was home with them doing the thankless, unpaid, mountainous work associated with that role. Today, neither parent is home, so there’s no reason the default custodial parent should be Mom./////Gosh, there is hope for the news media.

    So remind me, why would a man marry today?

    No, really. What’s in it for him? //// He is asking that, too. WHat is in it, for him?

  14. Jerome says

    How about one way: the red pill.

    Red pill knowledge spreads by observation of other men, seeing what works and what fails. It spreads by inadvertent reveals in the media. Men realize that Taylor Swift’s songs are honest revelations of women’s dreams – and their consequences.

    Men see red pill insights in the news. Parkland school shooter Nikolas Cruz was a pitiful loser, ignored or despised by girls. As a psychopathic killer (or maybe a hypnotically controlled assassin, using methods perfected in the 1950’s), now girls flood him with fan mail – offering themselves to him. That is understandable as the extreme version of the “girls want bad boys” behavior denied by feminists but obvious around us (and proven by many research studies). Men gain red pill insights from films and TV. They see women casually hitting men (even boyfriends) with impunity. Romance is shown as women breaking alpha men into betas – or women marrying beta providers whom they treat like doormats. Competent but socially inept beta men are treated with contempt and abuse by women. There is little in the patriarchal literature or films of the bad old days showing men treating women like that.

    Men read women discussing their lives, often ideal-shattering from a man’s perspective – and then take the red pill. See this extreme example: “I’m A Woman Who Cheated On Her Deployed Husband, This Is Why I Did It“. She skillfully deploys feminist philosophy to justify her actions. She collects his pay but plans to leave him eventually. Dalrock has a vast collection of women’s conversations from Christian conservative websites. Reading it will convert the most fervent White Knight to the MGTOW lifestyle (Men Going Their Own Way). Ditto with prominent women’s advice to young women: see these words that signal a drastic change in the American family.

    Men began to write about the gender revolution, encouraging other men to take the red pill. Since feminists won, these insurgents are outlaws. See this analysis about one form of girls’ Game (romance, party-of-her-life, marriage, kids, divorce, community property, child support, independence). Outlaw literature arises, such as “Stacy’s Credo” (see the second part, a stream of consciousness narrative written by a red pill James Joyce). See this example of red pill comedy (like all good comedy, expressing experiences of the audience).

    Dark knowledge changes everything
    “First they ignore you. Then they ridicule you. And then they attack you and want to burn you. And then they build monuments to you.”
    — Speech by union leader Nicholas Klein (1918), later repeated by Mahatma Ghandi

    Red pill insights demystify marriage, revealing how it no longer provides most men with an acceptable risk-cost-reward balance. This counter-revolution to radical feminism is in its early stage. This dark knowledge might spread like a virus through the current generation of young men (18-24). The primary effect: discouraging them from marrying. This would change the lives of their generation of women when these ladies hit 28 and decide to settle. This generation might be a step change in US history. It would be like a singularity in astrophysics – we cannot know what lies on the other side.

    Such exponential growth would surprise experts and the public. It always does, because core social phenomena are considered the unchangeable bedrock of society, no matter how much else changes – until it is washed away. Then comes the transitional phase, and eventually a new equilibrium.

    I suspect this will evolve according to Hegel’s process of thesis (radical feminism) => antithesis (red pill) => synthesis (something new). We can only guess what that new social order will look like, or how much disruption will occur between now and then. But there are clues.

    New institutions
    Most Christian institutions have adopted feminism or even radical feminism into their core doctrines. As Dalrock has shown with scores of examples of Christian Conservatives, often by profound alterations to their core doctrines (see below). A massive expansion of red pill thinking among young men will break their allegiance to those institutions. Since they have already been severely weakened by modernity, secularism, and scandals – they might become just a fringe factor in US society.

    Change creates opportunities. Some institutions might prosper by a resurgence of male pride. Red pill thinking might be a bridge for young men to Islam.

    Reactions to Red Pill knowledge
    “Anger is easy. Anger at the right person, at the right time, for the right reason, is difficult.”
    — Aristotle in hid Nicomachean Ethics (paraphrased).

    As always, the action to the reaction determines what happens next. Most men taking the Red Pill see that radical feminism has initiated social decay. Some respond by enjoying the decline. Weimerica is party time! Game and Red Pill knowledge help men get sex, and with prettier women. For most men the gain is small, but still appreciated.

    Some men take a different path. They are Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW), often dropping out of the rat race of education and striving for career advancement. Why bother? A comfortable life is low responsibility, minimal work plus booze, drugs, sports, e-sports, and games.

    Some respond with anger. This is exacerbated as they see the portrayal of men by the media (as dolts in advertisements). Some will channel their anger, seeking to change America. These are the ones to watch. Anger is often the first step to political action. More men will respond with inchoate anger, undirected and visceral. They will make excellent recruits for the first group. This might become a powerful boost to the alt-right.

    Our elites discourage anger since history shows that pleasant peasants are easier to rule. See these posts about anger as a spur to political action.

    A simple thing you can do to start the reform of America: get angry.
    How can we arouse a passion to reform America in the hearts of our neighbors?
    Should we risk using anger to arouse America?
    The best response to Campaign 2016: anger.
    Conclusion
    “Difficult to see, always in motion is the future.”
    — Yoda in The Empire Strikes Back.

    There is always a counter-revolution, even to successful revolutions. The result is seldom what either side expects. Sometimes the conflict produces a stronger society. Sometimes institutions are damaged beyond society’s ability to repair them, and no new ones appear to replace them. Usually the cost to the people involved is large.

    None of these factors have been considered by the ideologues who started the gender wars. They have made radical changes to society based only on their ideology, without experimentation or testing. Generations of young Americans are their guinea pigs. But the insight unleashed in the minds of both men and women must clash until resolved. It is a social science experiment as large or larger than communism.

  15. Jerry says

    Women like alphas. It’s that simple. Alphas have very clear boundaries, and they don’t put up with BS. Now feminists complain about alpha men- they are sexist, they think mostly of themselves, they are interested primarily in sex, they have little patience for the sort of drivel women speak about in today’s culture. They have an aura of danger about them. Women walk all over beta simps.

    How do you become alpha? Know exactly what you want. Get it. Just say no to requests to hold their purse, run errands, and so on. Think more of your own self. Be so decisive she can’t get much in, edgewise. There is no reason to do anybody violence, but trips the gym aren’t a bad idea. Focus on career helps. Money helps. Taking control helps. If you read the feminist stuff about what they hate in men- avoid the violence- but all that stuff about equality is a bucket of hogwash. Women are turned on by alphas. Not by nice guys. I went out with a woman, as a single parent, for a time. I was kind of deprived, and I would growl, and we’d have rough action. Nothing forced, but it was rough. She loved it. She didn’t like my kid, though, and eventually broke it off, and then later wanted to be back with me. They never forget the alphas. Betas are boring. Alphas are a challenge. They all think they have the magic whatever to tame him. If they succeed in taming him, they lose interest. They don’t like tame betas, except of course for money and security. One relatively cheap way to be an alpha is to get a motorcycle. Or have other macho hobbies.

    Being a nice guy, doing favors for them, makes them dis you. Yeah, I know, you were told that being a beta simp is a good thing. It just doesn’t work, and it parks you right in the friend zone. Being a bad boy gets a woman out of her thinking mind, into her emotions.

    If you want a long term relationship with a woman- you gotta stay alpha, if you want to keep your sanity. Set very clear boundaries, and do not allow transgressions. She respects strength, and clarity of mission. Look at your buddies. The former athlete who has very clear boundaries gets much more respect than the simp who lets the woman walk all over him. Spanish men, for example, do not do dishes. They don’t cook, other than maybe barbecues. They don’t clean. Their women like that, they may not say it, but they like it. They want a strong man around, to give them direction. “Macho”, in Spanish, by way, only means masculine, like “hembra” means feminine. Only in Mexico does it take on the meaning we have for it in the USA.

    Yes you can compromise. But maintain very clear boundaries, on what you’ll do, or not do. If she’s acting up, just say “i have to go out”, and leave. Don’t say where you’re going.

    If you want a sane marriage, do not marry a feminist. They are utterly worthless as wives, friends, lovers, and so on. They will play with bad boys, but it doesn’t work out well. The American Society of Dowsers has courses. Learn to use a pendulum, or L-rod with protractor, using the protractor as a percent scale. Ask questions like these:
    1. On a scale of 1-100, 100 being pure feminist, where is she? Answers over 40 mean you need to friendzone her, or cut it off. She is worthless as a wife.
    2. What is her partner count? Over 10 [yes]; over 30 [yes], over 100 [no], over 50 [no], 51? [no] 52? [yes]. Then ask her what her count is. She won’t tell you, of course, but you’ll learn how she lies.
    3. What is the probability of her going insane, during a marriage, on a scale of 1-100? Where 100% is inevitable? Answers over about 30 mean you need to cut it off, now. Living with insane women is the worst kind of hell. And around 2/3 of American women are almost insane as it is.
    4. What is the probability of her staying committed, to the marriage, on a scale of 1-100%? Answers under about 90% are kind of like a large sign, saying “DANGER: ASSET LOSS HIGHLY PROBABLE, WITH MAJOR PAIN AS AN APPETIZER”. I’d want 100%.
    5. There are the other usual questions- what is the probability of her getting addicted to substances, the probability of her having an affair, probabilities of her spending money very unwisely, and so on.
    6. Check the probability of her becoming like her mother. Is her mother pleasant? If she isn’t, you will find you have sandpaper underwear, with this woman.
    7. Check the percentage she gets along with her dad. If it’s under 90%, this is not good.
    8. Test the percentage of toxicity in her body. This can be very revealing.
    9. Test her commitment to raising the kids well. Under 90% is going to mean pain, and under 70% major pain, for your children.
    10. Test for the percentage possibility she will sleep around. I wouldn’t have anything to do with a woman whose percentage was over 0%. This is slightly different from commitment.
    11. Test for the number of times she slept around on previous boyfriends. If they did it once, they’ll do it again. WOmen do not change their habits.
    12. See how well organized her apartment is. Messy means drug or alcohol problems. Does she have Cosmopolitan mags lying around? See these as the bear traps they are, and get out as fast as you can. Be sick, have a sudden urgent task.
    13. How are her finances? How much credit card debt does she have? What kind of outstanding loans? I’ve known guys whose wives ran them 6 and 7 figures into debt. This is a kind of addiction.
    14. Does she wear the kind of fashion that has to be replaced every year? If so, guess who will pay for it.
    15. Does she know how to sew? This is not as popular as it used to be, but if she does, somebody taught her, and it’s useful.
    16. Does she have cutting humor, or cut people down, or insult them? Does she dis the little people? That’s a habit she’ll never break, and YOU will be her number one target, if you get into her firing range.
    17. Does she have a good heart? If she doesn’t have good heart, even if she scores 100 on every other measure, leave. She will cut your heart out, if she doesn’t have one.

    Does this sound invasive? No, guy, invasive is a forensic financial audit on all your assets, so she can take more than half of them.

    What if you get a woman who is sort of borderline? This is kind of like doing back flips on the edge of the Grand Canyon. You might get away with it. If you don’t, well, you’ll have a few seconds to regret your choice, before you become vulture food. Better to walk away from anything that doesn’t meet your standards- for long term relationships.

    If you want to get married, and you are under 30, wait. You don’t have the experience to evaluate. Instead, create a very clear image of the woman you want to be married to. How she spends. Her good heart, and health. Her thrift. How she cooks nutritious food, not some white flour pancake mix. How she avoids alcohol, soda, and other toxic foods. How she has cut all white refined flour and sugar, and corn syrup, out of her diet. How she eats healthy food, like, you know, vegetables, raw fruits. How she exercises. How she treats children. How she handles stress. How well she gets along with both parents. She will not be perfect. How does she deal with mistakes? How flexible is she? Take her on a camping trip. How she has babysat before. How she wears clothing that is durable, and stays in style. How she does community service. By way, if a woman isn’t doing some kind of community service, it means her sense of self stops at the skin. It will not grow out to include you, if it stops at her skin. Make a list.

    Then clean yourself up, if you haven’t already, and set the standard. She will copy from you. If you drink too much, she may, also.

    There are two ways to learn the above.
    1. Take this down, compile it, and live it.
    2. Disregard the above, and learn from prolonged pain and suffering.

    You want clear intent, which is basically a clear picture, and a clear feeling, of already having this ideal mate. Focus the feeling, because that is what creates it. And stay alpha. They love alphas. And walk all over betas.

  16. Chris says

    Men who never got any are mystified by the whole experience. Those who have had some know it has a mechanical and a spiritual component. A sexbot can do the mechanical. The spiritual component is unique, though. With a high quality woman, it is real ecstasy. WIth a mid-grade woman, it’s pretty good. With a low grade woman, well, it’s not good. Decide how much it is worth to you. Guys in military training have to do without. They manage. You can do without. It is better to walk away from the low grade experiences, they will only make you hate yourself. I’ve seen those sex tourist videos on youtube, guys who refuse to have anything to do with American women, save up their money, and go on a planeride 2-3 times a year. I guess this is the sailor approach. It’s not a risk I’d want to take, but some do. The key lesson of not being a simp- of being an alpha- is boundaries. Keep your boundaries. She will shittest you every day. If you pass the test, by keeping her in line, she will respect you. If you don’t pass the test, she will lose respect for you. Doing really thoughtful stuff for you- oh this was hard for me to learn- gets you no points. She doesn’t respect you for doing thoughtful stuff. What she needs is the hope of reforming you, with her magic female powers. As with anything else, give her hope, but never that- because as soon as you are reformed, you lose all attraction to her. It’s like a journey- where you stay on the journey, if you get to the destination, the journey is over. By way, feminism itself is a shittest. They are testing to see how far they can go. And our society is failing, badly, soon to be catastrophically.

  17. Roland says

    The Simpsons is propaganda to make men look bad. But it has its points. Do you notice all of Homer’s faults? And Marge, at least in the original series, stays with him. He does need her, and she feels needed. Would she stay with a guy who was always doing nice things for her? No, and women don’t. Notice examples from real life.

  18. Jorge says

    Do you think Clint Eastwood has ever been emasculated? I doubt it. Look at the guy. He knows who he is. He has clear boundaries. He doesn’t say much. He has some mystery to him. I have no idea what he is like in private life. But his persona on screen has earned him a lot of money. Chuck Connors, on The Rifleman, was the same way. The dipsh.t male actors we have nowadays are a joke. No woman would stay with a guy like that. Remember James Arness? He was like Clint. Women have no respect at all for feminine men. Listen to them talk. There is no polarity there. What happens when you get a strong charge differential? You get sparks. Same way in relationships. There is a Spanish feminist website, mujeresjovenes.es I laugh as hard as I can laugh, at the unbelievably stupid advice on that site. My spouse knows a woman who reads that site, and actually believes it. Now her father is macho- which, in Spanish, means he pays his bills, is responsible, takes care of his family, paid off the mortgage early, and so on. Her father paid for her to take a cooking class. She didn’t expend much effort. He tried very hard to get her into educational courses to increase her value. Didn’t work. So what does this woman do. She went to a Spanish bar, some years ago, they are not really like American bars, more like restaurants that serve wine. She went up to an hombre, and said, in Spanish, “I’m tired of men who don’t call me back. I want your number right now, buddy, and while we’re at it, we’re going to dance, now!” He gave her his cell phone number, danced a bit, and then made an excuse, and left. He blocked her out of his cell phone 5 minutes after leaving, and never showed up there again. He must have thought he’d found a woman on [ste]roid rage. She went out with another boyfriend, for a while, but was often sick, and demanded that he pay her a lot of attention. He was no fool, and broke this off quickly. She had one boyfriend, who was promising, but she wasn’t very focused, and he left her. Also, the feminist propaganda plays very badly in Spain, at least to men, though the Socialist government is doing its best to screw up society by adopting American style divorce laws- and it is working to mess things up. Know who feminist propaganda most offends? The guy’s mom. She wants her son married to a responsible woman, who will do her share. What feminist does her share… or wants to… or doesn’t think that doing 1/5 of her share is too much. Then that woman played with undocumented immigrants, which, in Spain, really lowers her value, her SMV. OK. Now she’s beyond optimum marrying age. Her parents are worried about her. Those feminist ideas basically insulated her from marrying a decent guy. Spaniards are nowhere near as stupid as Americans are. They don’t take risks on idiots. For all those women who throw away their SMV on the CC, here is a Spanish proverb: el agua pasada no mueve el molino. Water that has passed turns not the mill.

  19. James says

    One of the best ways to avoid being emasculated is to use humor.
    here are some examples.

    What do you call a letter from a feminist? Hate male.

    How many feminists does it take to screw in a light bulb? None. They just hold it in the socket and expect the world to revolve around them. No, four, one to call the repair tech, and three to write about the experience. No, 400, so they can have a march demanding equal lights.

    I went to a feminist picnic the other day. It was great, apart from the fact no one made any sandwiches.

    Teach a man to fish and he will eat for a lifetime. Teach a feminist to fish and she will accuse you of patronising her, claim she knew how to do it anyway and that even if she didn’t, she could easily work it out without the help of a man.

    How many feminists does it take to change a light bulb? None. It’s not the light bulb that needs changing.

    My girlfriend is a feminist. Which basically means she finds sexist jokes utterly abhorrent until one is made about men.

    Feminism: Strong, smart, and independent… Until things get a little bit difficult.

    What’s the male equivalent of a feminist? A sexist.

    What do you call a happy feminist? I’ll let you know if I ever see one.

    How do you confuse a feminist? Tell her that you refuse to allow her to make you a sandwich.

    Why don’t feminist’s go to the gym? Because it has a male name.

    I take my hat off to militant feminists… They don’t like that.

    What’s the first question during a feminist quiz night? What are you looking at?

    How many feminists does it take to screw in a light bulb? Twelve:
    One to screw it in.
    One to excoriate men for creating the need for illumination.
    One to blame men for inventing such a faulty means of illumination.
    One to suggest the whole “screwing” bit to be too “rape-like”.
    One to deconstruct the lightbulb itself as being phallic.
    One to blame men for not changing the bulb.
    One to blame men for trying to change the bulb instead of letting a woman do it.
    One to blame men for creating a society that discourages women from changing light bulbs.
    One to blame men for creating a society where women change too many light bulbs.
    One to advocate that light bulb changers should have wage parity with electricians.
    One to alert the media that women are now “out-lightbulbing” men.
    One to just sit there taking pictures for her blog for photo-evidence that men are unnecessary.

    So you’re a feminist… isn’t that cute.

    What’s the difference between a baby and a feminist? At some point in it’s life, a baby will grow up and stop fussing.
    “The depressing thing about tennis is that no matter how much I play, I’ll never be as good as a wall. I played a wall once. They’re relentless.”

    “I like rice. Rice is great when you’re hungry and you want 2,000 of something.”

    “Every book is a children’s book if the kid can read.”
    and for balance:

    “It’s fun telling people you go to McDonald’s. They always give you that look like, ‘Oh, I didn’t know I was better than you.’”

    “I do love our excuses [for eating dessert]. ‘I have a sweet tooth.’ Oh, so you’re ordering it for your tooth, that’s interesting. Because it’s going straight to your ass. I think your ass owes your tooth an explanation.”

    “It would be embarrassing trying to explain what an appetiser is to someone from a starving country. ‘Yeah, the appetiser – that’s the food we eat before we have our food. No, no, you’re thinking of dessert – that’s food we have after we have our food.’ We eat tons of food. Sometimes there’s so much we just stick it in a bag and bring it home. Then we throw it out the next day. Maybe give it to the dog.”

    SOmeone else can put some dumb men jokes on. Men tell those jokes, too.

  20. Vadim says

    Russian jokes can be hilarious. Until recently, some of these jokes would be grounds for years of imprisonment.

    Women do not respect emasculated men. But they will laugh at jokes. Humor can keep the emasculation away.

    Q: Is there a difference between capitalism and communism?
    A: In principle, yes. In capitalism, man exploits man. In communism, it’s the reverse.

    Q: Is it true that there is freedom of speech in the Soviet Union the same as there is the USA?
    A: In principle, yes. In the USA, you can stand in front of the Washington Monument in Washington, DC, and yell, “Down with Reagan!”, and you will not be punished. In the Soviet Union, you can stand in the Red Square in Moscow and yell, “Down with Reagan!”, and you will not be punished.

    Q: Is it true that the poet Vladimir Mayakovsky committed suicide?
    A: Yes, it is true, and even the record of his very last words is preserved: “Don’t shoot, comrades.”

    Q: Why is there no flour in the market?
    A: Because they began adding it to the bread.

    Q: Is it true that in the Soviet Union people do not need stereophonic equipment?
    A: In principle, yes. One hears exactly the same thing from all sides.

    Q: Is it true that conditions in our labor camps are excellent?
    A: In principle, yes. Five years ago one of our listeners was not convinced of this, so he was sent to
    investigate. He seems to have liked it so much that he hasn’t returned yet.

    Q: Under communism will we still have money?
    A: No, none of that either.

    Q: Could an atomic bomb destroy our beloved town, Yerevan, with its splendid buildings and beautiful gardens ?
    A: In principle, yes. But Moscow is by far a more beautiful city.

    Q: What is chaos?
    A: We do not comment on national economics.

    Q: What is cosmopolitan?
    A: Cosmonaut’s deputy in political affairs.

    Q: What is a Soviet musical duet?
    A: It’s a musical quartet after a trip abroad.

    Q: We are told that the communism is already seen at the horizon. What then is a horizon?
    A: Horizon is an imaginary line which moves away each time you approach it.

    Q: Why is our government not in a hurry to land our men on the moon?
    A: What if they refuse to return?

    Q: When Nixon visited Moscow, he and Khrushchev had a race around the Kremlin. Nixon came the first. How should our media report on that?
    A: As follows: In the international running competition the General Secretary of the Communist Party took the honorable second place, while President Nixon came in next to last.

    Q: What is the difference between the Constitutions of the USA and USSR? Both guarantee freedom of speech.
    A: Yes, and the US Constitution also guarantees freedom after speech.

    Q: What is permitted and what is prohibited?
    In England, what is permitted, is permitted, and what is prohibited, is prohibited.
    In America everything is permitted except for what is prohibited.
    In Germany everything is prohibited except for what is permitted.
    In France everything is permitted, even what is prohibited.
    In the USSR everything is prohibited, even what is permitted.

    Q: Why have Solzhenitsyn, Brodsky, Bukovsky, and other dissidents have been exiled from the country?
    A: Did you know that the best products are always selected for export?
    Non-Soviet topics

    Q: What is common between a pregnant eight-grader and Trabant?
    A: Both are shame of the family.
    Other
    Once established, this “headline” became a standard format of many Q&A jokes, and it is often difficult to recognize what was the original format of the joke.

    Q: Is it true that Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov from Moscow won a car in a lottery?
    A: In principle yes, but:
    it wasn’t Ivan Ivanovich Ivanov but Aleksander Aleksandrovich Aleksandrov;
    he is not from Moscow but from Odessa;
    it was not a car but a bicycle;
    he didn’t win it, but it was stolen from him.

    Q: Can a woman remain virgin after three marriages?
    A: Yes, if the first husband was French, the second one is Armenian, and the third one is Soviet academician.

    Q: What can a woman make from nothing?
    A: A stylish haircut, a salad, and a tragedy.

    Q: What is “Russian business”?
    A: To steal a crate of vodka, to sell it, and then drink the money away.

    Q: Why do women work so much on their appearance, but so little on their intellect?
    A: Because there are many fewer blind men than stupid ones.

    Q: Is it true that Tchaikovsky was homosexual?
    A: Yes, but we love him not only for this.

    3.1 This is Armenian Radio. Our listeners asked us, “Will people have money when communism is built?”
    We’re answering: “Some will, some will not.”

    3.2 This is Armenian Radio. Our listeners asked us, “Is it possible to build communism in America?”
    We’re answering: “It’s possible, but who will we buy grain from?”

    3.3 This is Armenian Radio. Our listeners asked us, “When the final phase of socialism, namely communism, is built, will there still be thefts and pilfering?”
    We’re answering: “No, because everything will be already pilfered during socialism.”

    3.4 This is Armenian Radio. Our listeners asked us, “Was comrade Lenin a scientist or a politician?”
    We’re answering: “Of course, a politician. If he were a scientist, he would’ve first tried his theories on dogs.”

    3.5 Question: “What is the most permanent feature of our socialist economy?”
    Answer: “Temporary shortages.”

    3.6 Question: “What is the difference between capitalism and socialism?”
    Answer: “In a capitalist society man exploits man, and in a socialist one, the other way around.”

    3.7 Question: What is the difference between the capitalist and the socialist trade?
    Answer: Capitalist trade means everything is to be sold. Socialist trade means everything is to be bought.

    3.8 Question: When communism will be built, will there still be Jews and Armenians?
    Answer: Don’t worry, the Jews and the Armenians will find a way to fink out.

    3.9 Question: Is it possible to make ends meet on salary alone?
    Answer: We don’t know, we never tried.

    3.10 Question: What is the greatest achievement of the Soviet agriculture? Answer: Sowing in the USSR and harvesting in America.

    3.11 Question: Is it true that American cars are the fastest in the world?
    Answer: Yes, it’s true, but on the other hands, our Soviet watches are the fastest in the world.

    3.12 Question: Is it true that American skyscrapers are the tallest in the world?
    Answer: Yes, it’s true, but on the other hand the Soviet-made transistors are the largest in the world.

    3.13 Question: Is it possible to sleep with an open window?
    Answer: Yes, it’s possible if there is nobody else to sleep with.

    • Don says

      These jokes came from a socialist country. One can see some of the problems of socialism. Getting enough to eat, in Russia, is not easy. Food quality varies a lot. The elites eat well, but the average person eats far worse than what Americans get

  21. J says

    3.14 Question: What is Sholokhov writing now?
    Answer: A crime novel titled “How I received the Nobel prize in literature.”

    3.15 Question: Should an eighteen years old girl go to bed at eight pm?
    Answer: Yes, if her parents expect her to be back home not later than ten.

    3.16 Question: Will everybody learn swimming when the communism is built?
    Answer: Please, please… Don’t compare communism to the World Flood.

    3.17 Question: Is there in the USSR an open opposition?
    Answer: Even if it were, it would long have been none.

    3.18 Question: What will be the results of the next elections?
    Answer: Nobody can tell. Somebody has stolen yesterday the exact results of the next elections from the office of the Central Committee of the USSR.

    3.19 (Another version of 3.18)

    Question: What will be the sentence in the case of citizens Arutyunyan and Akopyan whose trial is expected to be completed next week?
    Answer: Nobody can tell. The text of the sentence has been stolen yesterday from the District Party Committee.

    3.20 Question: Is it possible to buy a man who is deeply honest and principled?
    Answer: To buy is impossible; but it’s possible to sell.

    3.21 Question: Why the symbol of the Republicans in the US is an elephant, but that of the Democrats is an ass?
    Answer: Because no ass can symbolize two political parties at the same time.

    3.22 Question: What is the difference between the capitalist advertising and the communist propaganda?
    Answer: We don’t know about the difference, but one can’t get away from either of them.

    3.23 What is the difference between Russian and English fairy tales?
    Answer: The English fairy tale start with “Once upon a time…., and ours with “It will be soon…”

    3.24 Question: Why did you not broadcast for such a long time?
    Answer: We had to make some changes in our staff. The previous broadcaster, while reading an article that contained the words, “Socialism is nothing as compared with communism,” made a pause too long after the word “nothing.”

    3.25 Question: How will the people know that the communism has finally arrived?
    Answer: Don’t worry, the newspapers and radio will announce this in timely fashion. As to TV, it’s not yet known.

    3.26 Question: How should be a mermaid and a centaur depicted to meet the laws of the Socialist Realism?
    Answer: The mermaid should have the upper part that of a fish, and the lower part that of a woman, the legs clad in stockings and shoes. As to the centaur, the upper part remain that of a man, but the lower part, rather than being that of a horse, is replaced with a tractor, desirably with spare parts.

    3.28. Question: Is it possible to make one chicken last for a whole week?
    Answer: Yes. Just buy the chicken on Monday but cook it next Sunday.

    3.29 Question: Why did Stalin work only in nighttime?
    Answer: Are you indeed that naive? Even kids know who sets out to work only after dark.

    3.30. Question: My husband cheated on me so many times that I just don’t know who is the father of my kids. What shall I do?
    Answer: Be magnanimous and forgive your husband.

    3.31 Question: Is it true that the Berlin wall was built to separate West from East?
    Answer: No, it’s not true. It was built to separate East from West.

    3.32 Question: What a poor man needs?
    Answer: A slice of white bread. Caviar may be also black.

    3.38 * Question: What shall we do when in a restaurant they serve a hamburger which looks like a piece of shit?
    Answer: To be sure, just taste it.

    3.39 Question: Is it true that every Soviet soldier dreams of becoming a general?
    Answer: No, our soldiers are not that stupid. They know that generals may become MIA even in the time of peace.

    3.40 Question: What should we do if the Western borders of the USSR were opened?
    Answer: Rush to Siberia at once in order not to be crushed in the stampede.

    3.41 Question: Will the police still exist when communism is built?
    Answer: Of course, not. By that time, all citizens will have learned how to arrest themselves.

    3.42 Question: What to do if a man you don’t know takes a seat at your table in a pub and starts to sigh?
    Answer: Immediately demand to stop the anti-Soviet propaganda.

    3.43. Question: Do you often drink that much that you fully forget everything?
    Answer: We can’t remember.

    3.44 Question: Is there a problem of racism in the USSR?
    Answer: No. In our country both the whites and the blacks are counted among the red.

    3.45 Question: Why do we have all those shortages in meat supply?
    Answer: We are approaching communism at such a high pace that the cattle lags behind.

    3.46 Question: In our factory’s mess hall, the tea is not sweet at all, while the mess manager says he puts sugar according to the prescribed doze. What shall we do?
    Answer: Try to stir your tea counterclockwise rather than clockwise.

    3.47 Question: Is it possible to build socialism in Switzerland?
    Answer: It’s possible, but why? Did Switzerland really do something wrong to you?

    3.48 Question: Is it possible in a socialist country to end up under a train?
    Answer: Easier than on a train.

    3.49 Question: What shall we do if suddenly we feel a desire to work?
    Answer: Just rest for a while on a sofa. It will pass.

    3.50 Question: Why some people say that Hungarians love the Russians and hate the Americans?
    Answer: Because Russians helped Hungarians to get rid of one totalitarian rule, but Americans don’t help to get rid of the other.

    3.51 Question: What is the easiest way to explain the meaning of the word “communism?”
    Answer: By means of fists.

    3.52 Question: Are the bedbugs also builders of socialism?
    Answer: Of course, in their veins flows the workers-and-peasants’ blood.

    3.53 Question: Why the man who shot at a government limousine on the Red Square, missed the target?
    Answer: Because citizens who happened to be next to him tried to wrest the gun from him and shouted, ‘Let me shoot!”

    3.55 Question: What to do if vodka interferes with the job?
    Answer: Get off the job.

    3.57 Question: What to do if a tiger attacks a mother-in-law?
    Answer: If he was the first to attack, let him defend himself on his own.

    3.58 Question: Why some men are bald, while the other are not?
    Answer: All men are bald. Just some of them have hair over the bald spot.

    3.59 Question: Why the answers of Armenian Radio are often stupid?
    Answer: Because these answers are invented not by Armenians.

    3.62 Question: Is it possible to wrap an elephant in a newspaper?
    Answer: Yes, if this is the issue that features a speech by Khrushchev.

    3.63 Question: What is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?
    Answer: A pessimist maintains that the things are so bad, they can’t become any worse; an optimist believes they can become even worse.

    3.64 Question: What is worse than a young pessimist?
    Answer: An old optimist.

    3.66 Question: How many fools are there in Armenia?
    Answer: Come over here, you’ll be the first.

    3.67 Question: What the leaders of the communist countries have in common with the unemployed in the West?
    Answer: They all are uncertain about their next day.

    Keep in mind that feminists want to turn America socialist. It might be wise to ask those who have endured socialism how much they liked it.

  22. J says

    We need more humor at this site. It’s too serious at times.

    3.68 Question: Moscow radio tells me every day about the cornucopia of food in our country, while my fridge is empty. What should I do?
    Answer: Plug your fridge into your radio.

    3.69 * Question: Why Lenin wore regular shoes, but Stalin wore boots?
    Answer: At Lenin’s time, Russia was still only ankle-high in shit.

    3.70 Question: May you please give an example of the greatest utterances by Stalin?
    Answer: Yes. For example, Stalin taught, “One has to plan skillfully. One should not plan unskillfully. What does it mean? It means that we, the communists, must not plan unskillfully. If we plan unskillfully then we plan poorly. And if we plan skillfully, then we’ll plan well!”
    That’s what the Great Stalin taught us.

    3.71 Question: What is the duration of the workday in a socialist country?
    Answer: Of course, it’s an eight-hour workday: from eight am to eight pm.

    3.73 Question: What is an exchange of opinions?
    Answer: When you walk into your boss’s office with your opinion and walk out with his.

    3.75 Question: Is it possible for a man to give a birth?
    Answer: There has not been such a case on record. But experiments continue in many countries.

    3.76 Question: What is the most uncomfortable?
    Answer: To put on your pants by pulling them over your head.

    3.78 Question: Is there anti-Semitism in the USSR?
    Answer: We must answer in the positive: No!

    3.79 Question: How to prevent damage caused by earthquakes?
    Answer: To borrow the experience of the progressive part of the Western youth. They often organize mass demonstrations, for a cause or without a cause, under an universal slogan, “We protest!” With this slogan, they bravely march in front of parliaments, or of Universities, or of any other structures. As a rule, they carry portraits of Marx, Lenin, Che Guevara, Tito, Mao, Stalin, Hitler, Ho Chi Min, Charlie Chaplin, Arafat, Napoleon, The Pope, Nelson Mandela, Michael Jackson, Madonna, and many other known and unknown personalities. The oscillations of the ground caused by their footsteps strengthen the urban structures.

    3.80 Question: Can a son of a General become a Marshal?
    Answer: No, because every Marshal also has a son.

    3.82 Question: How to find out the precise time of the day?
    Answer: A few seconds before noon, you’ll hear a low-pitched tone followed by a high-pitched tone. At that moment the time will be 12 noon, or at the most 12 and a quarter.

    3.85 Question: Does China have rockets powerful enough to reach the moon?
    Answer: They don’t need rockets. If the Chinese communist Party ordered, their people just would step on each other’s shoulders and this way they can reach even the sun.

    3..88 Question: Is it possible to sit down on a porcupine with a naked ass?
    Answer: It’s possible on three occasions, to wit:
    1. If you first shave the porcupine;
    2. If it is not yours but somebody else’s ass; and
    3. If that’s the will of the Party.

    3.89 Question: Is it true that if you measure a tiger from the tip of his nose to the end of his tail, the length is twice as big as if you measure from the end of the tail to the tip of the nose? If it’s true, how can it be?
    Answer: What’s unusual in that? Don’t you know, for example, that from Easter to Christmas it’s eight months, but from Christmas to Easter only four?

    3.90 Question: Was it possible to criticize Hitler?
    Answer: Sure. The same way as you criticized Stalin. You had to lock yourself in your bedroom, hide under two, or better three covers, place a pillow, or better two pillows on top of the blankets over your head, and then whisper whatever your soul wishes about the dictator, strictly adhering to a five-minute limit.

    3.91 Question: What is the difference between newspapers and radio?
    Answer: You can use a newspaper to wrap a herring, but you can’t wrap it in radio waves.

    3.92 Question: Which tea is better, Chinese or Soviet-grown?
    Answer: Don’t mix up in the confrontation between the superpowers. Drink coffee.

    3.94 Question: Will there be the third world war?
    Answer: No, but the struggle for peace will reach such degree that there will be no stone left intact on the earth.

    3.98 Question: Why policemen always walk the streets in teams of three?
    Answer: The partners in the police team are always chosen in such a way that one of them knows how to read, the other how to write, and the third one, naturally, has to keep watch over those two intellectuals.

    3.99 Question: Is it true that there are two kinds of people serving as deputies of the Supreme Soviet of the USSR, as members of the Supreme Court, and as Soviet diplomats?
    Answer: Yes, it is a true. One kind is those not capable of anything at all, and the other, those capable of anything whatsoever.

    3.100 Question: What if socialism were built in Sahara?
    Answer: First sand would become available only through ration cards, and then sand would be distributed only to the Politburo members.

    3.101 (Version of 3.100)

    Question: What if socialism were built in Greenland?
    Answer: First snow would become available only through ration cards, and later snow would be distributed only to the KGB officers and their families.

    3.102 Question: What is communism?
    Answer: It’s when everything will be available in stores. In other words, like it was under the Czar Nikolai the Second.

    3.103 Question: What is the difference between the Constitutions of the USA and USSR? Both guarantee freedom of speech.
    Answer: Yes, but the Constitution of the USA also guarantees freedom after the speech.

    3.104 Question: Why do we need two central newspapers, Pravda (Truth) and Izvestiya (News) if both are organs of the same Party?
    Answer: Because in Pravda there are no news, and in Izvestiya there is no truth.

    3.105 Question: What is it that starts with an R and never ends?
    Answer: Reorganization.

    3.106 Question: Is it possible to build socialism in one stand-alone country?
    Answer: It’s possible, but better to live in another country.

    3.107 Question: Is it true that due to the achievements of the Soviet technology, we will soon be able to order food over the phone?
    Answer: Yes, our sources tell us it is true. The same sources told us the ordered food would be delivered via TV.

    3.108 Question: What is the socialist friendship of nations?
    Answer: It’s when Armenians, Russians, Ukrainians, Jews, and all other peoples of the USSR unite in a brotherly manner and all together set out to beat up the Azeris.

    3.111 Question: Why did butter disappear from the stores’ shelves?
    Answer: It all has melted under the sun of the Soviet Constitution.

    3.112 Question: What is the difference between Zionism and Impressionism?
    Answer: We don’t know about this difference, but if you are who we think you are, you better go.

    3.113 Question: is it possible to solve a problem which has no solution?
    Answer: We don’t answer questions related to agriculture.

    3.114 Question: Are there questions you can’t answer?
    Answer: No. We approach our job in accordance with the Marx’ dialectics. To any question we can give any answer.

    3.116 Question: What was the main problem our pilots encountered during Korean war and during the war in Vietnam?
    Answer: In both wars, our pilots had to operate their planes with one hand only, the other hand busy pulling the corners of their eyes to keep them slanted.

    3.119 Question: Is there life on other planets?
    Answer: On other planets there is also no life.

    3.120 Question: Can a woman serve as a diplomat?
    Answer: No, because a woman and a diplomat use differently the words Yes and No. If a diplomat says Yes, it means Maybe. If a diplomat says Maybe, it means No. If a diplomat says No, what kind of diplomat is he? On the other hand, if a woman says No, it means Maybe. If a woman says Maybe, it means Yes. If a woman says Yes, well, what kind of woman is she?

    3.121. Question: What is permitted and what is prohibited?
    Answer: In England, what is permitted, is permitted, and what is prohibited, is prohibited.
    In America everything is permitted except for what is prohibited.
    In Germany everything is prohibited except for what is permitted.
    In France everything is permitted, even what is prohibited.
    In the USSR everything is prohibited, even what is permitted.

    3.122 Question: What is a one word joke?
    Answer: Communism

    3.123 Question: What is the longest joke?
    Answer: The speech made by Khrushchev at the Party congress.

    3.124 Question: How can it be that ugly cocoons convert into beautiful butterflies?
    Answer: What is unusual about it? For example, all young girls are so pretty and nice, but where do all those ugly witches of wives come from?

    3.125 Question: Why Solzhenitsyn, Brodsky, Bukovsky, and other dissidents have been exiled from the country?
    Answer: Don’t you know that the best products are always selected for export?

  23. David says

    I found this in my email. I have no idea what the product is, but whoever generated this had some interesting ideas about what sells. Since I’ve never read it, I don’t endorse it.

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  24. Mary Ann says

    Ogi Ogas, a computational neuroscientist, and author of A Billion Wicked Thoughts, has ventured into enemy territory with a post at Psychology Today – Why Feminism is the Anti-Viagra. He’s aware of the risks, which is why he begins his article by whispering this:

    Gender equality inhibits arousal. Of course, he might as well have announced it with cannons – it wasn’t two shakes of a lamb’s tail before feminists came out screaming snark. “The majority of women have submission fantasies. From classic romance The Flame and The Flower to classic erotica The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty to Twilight BDSM fan fiction, submission themes are immensely popular in cross-cultural female erotica. The fact of the matter is that most heterosexual women are wired to find sexual submission arousing–and so are most female mammals.”

    Any woman being honest with herself knows this is true. That even includes, on occasion, ardent feminists. Nothing can produce the clit twinge faster than mental images of rough, unexpected sex with a favored male. Consider these quotes:

    I have struggled with two competing images of the opposite sex: oppressor, and dream date.
    —J. Courtney Sullivan

    I blame my recurring rape fantasy on the fact that I’m a feminist.
    —Tracie Egan (By the way, Tracie Egan has shared the story of having paid a male gigolo to enact a forceful rape with her, according to Ogas. She’s also put together a list of articles proving that “Psychology Today Hates Feminism.” Since Psychology Today is a network of bloggers motivated by science rather than ideology, perhaps that should tell us something.)

    Ogas: “Almost every quality of dominant males triggers arousal in the female brain: dominant scents, dominant gaits, deep voices, height, displays of wealth…women still want strong, dominant men.”

    For insight into the effects of feminism on the SMP, Ogas interviews Angela Knight, a successful author of erotic romances. (Since these romance novels are over 40% of all books in print, in the USA, that says a lot about American women.)

    “I think this is one of the problems we’re having in romance in general right now: our heroes have gotten a little too PC. We’re portraying men the way feminist ideals say they should be—respectful and consensus-building. Yet women like bad boys. I suspect that’s because our inner cavewoman knows Doormat Man would become Sabertooth Tiger Lunch in short order.” Meanwhile, Ogas notes that the “massive popularity of dominance-themed websites for men” demonstrates that men have the opposite, and complementary arousal triggers.

    “Our mammalian brains come wired with very ancient sexual preferences, quite prominent in the most popular forms of male and female erotica preferred by Homo sapiens. Men are aroused by being dominant and by submissive women, women are aroused by being submissive and by dominant men. In the bedroom, inequality beats equality.” Note that final statement. Ogas is talking about what turns people on sexually, in the bedroom. He is not saying that women shouldn’t enter the boardroom. Rather, he addresses the loss of acknowledged differences between the sexes and its effect on relationships. (no polarity=no current.)

    Women’s gains have undeniably been at the expense of men. In an era where women have an unprecedented amount of “power, independence and clout,” men have lost a corresponding share. Today, there are often two dominant people in the bedroom. As women grow more dominant, they exceed the dominance of a significant percentage of the male population, leaving them with a much smaller pool of men they find attractive. Even feminists don’t want submissive males, which is why so many of them are perpetually single. (Sane men don’t want feminists, either, so I guess we’re even.)

    Ogas explains why we can’t just educate, or even guilt people into rewiring their attraction triggers to accomodate feminism: “Just as democracy has no effect on our basic taste preferences for sugar and fat, democracy doesn’t affect our basic sexual preferences for domination and submission.”

    Bad boys win again.

  25. Jordi says

    One of the smartest things any man can do, is to cut the cord to the toxic mass media.

    Actor Henry Cavill acts civilly and feminists cannot even, so they attack him. Some people have speculated that at some point the anti-sexual harassment movement #MeToo was going to lead to a pendulum swing, and begin to be less a solution to an issue, and instead be a tool of unprovoked aggression. We may on the verge of that negative upswing.

    Following Harvey Weinstein’s career defenestration a number of other luminous characters were felled by sex scandals. These men were uniformly those facing multiple accusers, detailing numerous acts of aggression, over a prolonged timetable. Lately we have seen cases of those men bearing punishment over lone accusations.

    Now things have gotten more intolerant. Actor Henry Cavill has come under fire from #MeToo supporters ***over NOT assaulting anyone***. There may be no better illustration on modern sexual trip wires when a man decides to completely avoid the minefield and he still has things blow up in his face. We have reached a point where a man acting properly is made to bow to the outrage mob.
    At issue is an interview Cavill gave to GQ Australia where he was detailing the foibles he faces as a single man in today’s hyper-charged climate. He expressed how he has pulled back from the dating scene due to the accusatory nature of things, and his traditional position of pursuing a woman he deems worthy is affected by the new rules in the social marketplace.

    “There’s something wonderful about a man chasing a woman. There’s a traditional approach to that, which is nice. I think a woman should be wooed and chased, but maybe I’m old-fashioned for thinking that. It’s very difficult to do that if there are certain rules in place.”

    Of course, women complain about being chased, and even more, when they aren’t chased.

  26. Colin says

    Fascinating article from AUstralia.

    When the Greens senator Larissa Waters publicly endorsed the No Gender December campaign last week, most people thought it was just another left-feminist brain-snap.

    As if buying Barbies for young girls at Christmas condemns them to a lifetime of low self-esteem and repression. My seven-year-old daughter has a room full of Barbies, yet she’s an incredibly independent, strong-willed and capable young lady. Over the years, I’ve met prime ministers, presidents and billionaires, but none of them have overwhelmed me with their force of personality the way Siena Latham does.

    >>>Left-feminists are in a fantasy world in which all parts of life are inherently political.<<< Amen, bruddah!

    I’ve always thought the manufacturer puts something in the Barbies to empower her and weaken me – like kryptonite on Superdad. Senator Waters and her Green mates are off with the pixies – a fantasy world in which all parts of life are inherently political. You get up in the morning and go to the toilet: for the Greens, that’s an act of politics. By standing at the urinal, men exercise the power of patriarchy, while women are forced to sit – a vulnerable and submissive position. (Even opening a refrigerator must seem like rape, to these women.)

    You buy your son a Star Wars lightsaber and the dark side will convert him to a lifetime of misogyny. You buy your daughter a pink dress and automatically she’ll be barefoot and pregnant in a public housing estate, denied access to the Anne Summers texts that could set her free. It’s easy to dismiss No Gender December for what it is: a political sect that extrapolates the simple, everyday parts of life into wacky sociological conspiracies. But it’s more than that.

    In the inner suburbs of our major cities, a fascinating experiment is under way. Thousands of children have been locked in a gender-neutral bubble, growing up in households manipulated by their mothers to fit the left-feminist mould. How do we know this? Through the phenomenon of mummy bloggers.
    Daily Life, for instance, describes itself as “a proudly female-biased website". One of its feature writers is Sarah Macdonald, well known for her work on ABC radio.

    Like most mummy bloggers, she’s youngish, hip and self-absorbed. Her parenting techniques provide a snapshot of left-feminism in action. According to Macdonald, “all parents" try to “raise children in a new way, unencumbered by a long, rich history of gender stereotypes". But then they slip back into old habits, such as when “a mother coos ‘you’re so pretty’ to her baby daughter" or “a father comes home and starts ‘fun time’ ". For any parent inclined to talk about their daughter’s appearance, the answer is clear: call her ugly.

    The next MacParenting tip is for mothers to avoid being “the default parent" – the one “who has met the teacher and knows where the favourite T-shirt is buried". Macdonald, it seems, is unmoved by research showing parents actively involved in their children’s education help to improve their children’s academic results. If she sees a teacher walking towards her at school pick-up time, apparently she runs the other way. Her bare-chested children (having been unable to find their ­T-shirts that morning) are then forced to chase her down the street.

    This prejudice against education is confirmed in other MacParenting recommendations. In trying to avoid the “dad is fun, mum is mean" stereotype, Macdonald admits to having “avoided homework [assistance] for years", while her “kids have stopped learning their instruments". She’s also against participation on school P and Cs, given “it’s another area of unpaid work for women". MacParenting hates the idea of dads being seen as “the fun one". So in divorced families, mothers are advised to “give their kids pizza every night".

    What’s the net outcome of this social experiment? In the name of gender equality, left-feminism is breeding a generation of shirtless, tone-deaf, overweight, pizza-eating dummies – the opposite of what progressive politics is supposed to achieve. (opposite? Are you sure? Someone wanting to destroy society couldn't do any better than following a feminist script.) At the Macdonald laboratory, the results are clear: “My daughter is far more willing to whack [people] than my son and she is not a hugger". Here in outer-western Sydney, I couldn’t live without my daughter’s hugs. Thank goodness we’re the antithesis of nutty Green feminism. (It's like the old recipe for making liberals: equal mix of fruits, nuts, and flakes, mix it all up, and half bake it.)

  27. Diana says

    This says it better than I could.

    Why is femininity so important?
    Kevin Li
    Kevin Li, B.A. Gender Studies, Evergreen Valley College (2014)

    The (in my opinion) best orientation of a nuclear family is with masculine male and feminine female. We of course need a masculine male if a feminine female will be of importance, and vice versa.

    First, we have to highlight how gender roles are important and influence us. From birth, we (and monkeys) choose gendered toys. Girls like dolls and boys like gadgets, basically function oriented toys. This innate tendency is a product of our production to the gendered sex hormones, testosterone and estrogen. The female role of historically caring for kids and male role of being a provider for family. Females naturally produce more estrogen and males, testosterone. Testosterone increases aggressiveness, muscle tone and sexual drive. Estrogen contributes to increased agreeableness, less aggresive behavior and sexual drive.

    Femininity is important because of how our society functions. We need both sides of the coin to live happily. Stay at home mothers are the happiest group and children raised by their mothers will be less depressed and will have less anti social tendencies. Femininity also increases the chance of a marriage and monogamy. Feminine women are less sexually active, are better pair bonders and tend to divorce less. This leads to intact and healthier families with both parents caring and protecting their children.

    addition: Yet our society prefers chaos.

  28. mark says

    Best way to avoid emasculation is to avoid emasculating women. Game, set, match. if she’s at all dominating, has to have her way all the time- get out. Fast. Ghost that b…. If she’s at all dominating. You’re doing her a favor, by giving accurate feedback.

    If you are stuck in a relationship with one of these, that you can’t easily leave, you have some options. Stop being so rational. Start being irrational. Be unpredictable. Just enough to get them off balance. Study bad boys, and adapt their behavior. Women love controlling bad boys, they sleep with them, they stay with them, they gravitate to them.

  29. Mark says

    There is one way to avoid emasculation. Walk. Disconnect emotionally. Maintain booty calls for women who are simply not worth a committed relationship. I see more and more men doing this, seeking Friends w/ Benefits. Being placed in the “booty call” aka “jumpoff” aka “FWB” category is largely related to the energy the woman gives off. What do the below behaviors really communicate?
    (1) wearing very revealing clothing
    (2) carrying emotional baggage (past relationships/daddy issues), and dumping on the man at every opportunity, instead of dealing with it. Yes, you can get over trauma.
    (3) playing hard to get, and/or playing mind games
    (4) opening legs up before reaching that stage where an exclusive commitment by BOTH SIDES has been reached.
    (5) feminism. This is a major turnoff for men. Rights for women, and feminism, only overlap some. Feminism is really female fascism.
    (6) near total lack of respect, for self, and others, including lack of long term planning, lack of self improvement, lack of connection to the heart, an addiction to the superficial, and so on. It is scary to be around some women, they are so totally clueless. Yes, clueless men exist.

    The bottom line is….Men RESPECT women who Respect THEMSELVES and Respect THEIR BODIES, because they are very likely to respect others, including their children. Women respect men who respect themselves, for the same reason. Women who do not respect themselves- and I put most feminists in this category- will absolutely disrespect others. Women are not taught to love themselves, in our culture. Pamper themselves, do no planning, yes, but they are not taught to love themselves. Loving self means seeking out only those who love. Seeking out bad boys is a major form of disrespect to self. This is a form of self-flagellation. A woman who plays with bad boys is a very, very bad prospect for marriage. Men who cannot respect themselves are subject to emasculation, because- they don’t see themselves as adult males. They attract abusive women.

    Women who often attract liars, cheaters, abusers, bad boys, and those who can only see the physical in sex, need to look inside themselves, to see what belief systems are at work. This is not evidence of belief systems that honor self. Men who get abusive women are in the same boat.

    Men and women who have someone who only sees you at one in the morning, only texts and/or calls you, when they want to have sex, have a booty call. Some women as well as men only want bootycalls for various reasons. Acting as if someone put you in a certain status and there is nothing you can do about it, is ridiculous.

    Men and women place others in booty call status ALL THE TIME. If s/he is not dating/marriage material then s/he is a booty call. Ask women who have had a guy take them on a date, or men who have taken a woman out, where they slept together, and only one party wants to maintain.

    Women and men are in complete control of how their partners view and treat them. Put yourself on fire with respect, knowing your value, and having clear standards. Today. Men are not impressed by women who slept around for 20 years, and THEN start denying sex, to get the ring. Women who seek committed male partners at 38, say, who rode the CC, are not dealing with 21 year olds who have no idea how things work. Unless they are cougars of course, but as men say, “cougars are for practice”.
    Men grow out of emasculation. Pain teaches them wisdom, when they refuse to learn other ways. Our 38 year old who has the revelation that her assets are decaying, has an interesting problem. She is selling a wasting asset. Her main audience, just as when she was younger, is men 10-15 years older. Sure there are exceptions. Some humans walked on the moon, but that doesn’t mean you can expect to.

    You will hear the Tom Leykis rule; dump a woman who won’t sleep with you, after three dates. There’s a good cure for emasculation. Now think about this. A woman who is totally into her feminine energy, who has improved herself and continues to do so, who shows signs of intelligence, especially as a good mother- as so few American women do these days- a woman who is healthy, eats a good diet, has no tramp stamps, doesn’t put toxins on her body every day, who makes good decisions, is she going to get dumped after 3 dates? She might, but she needs those guys out of her life. her odds of finding a decent guy, especially if she starts looking in the season- 25-32 or so- are very high. It won’t take a year, for commitment to happen- if the woman is in the wavelength of a great wife and mother. This is why moms of old prepped their daughters carefully. This is why loose women got no respect, in the old days- they would end up badly matched, or in worse situations. Nowadays loose women are celebrated.

    Men who want to grow of out emasculating women need to spend some time alone. A Vision Quest is an ideal way to do it. Time alone in nature is useful. A long trip can help. Then study alpha males, and become one, to the extent your morals allow. If you have to have the FWB stage, ok, do that, but at least don’t hurt her. She is a teacher, and all teachers deserve respect. Men: you cannot cure women of anything, ever. If they are ballbusters, they will always be ballbusters. Cut them off, politely, in stealth. Women who have triple and quadruple digit partner counts will not change. Your task, if you seek a healthy relationship, is to be healthy yourself- physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually. This always begins with self-respect, based on achievement, and growth. The respect overflows onto others.

    Speaking as one who was once emasculated, you grow out of it. My first wife, who married me as a convenient train west, had zero respect for me. So she played around, and ran off with the first guy willing to support her. Yes, that was painful. And after a year, I was ready to send thank you cards to the guy. I kept our child, and had no payments to make to her. How does it get better than that? Yes, I had another bad relationship- a woman i thought I could ‘fix’. She wasn’t fixable, so I engaged in mind games, and she left, too. I did that VIsionQuest. best thing I ever did. I can turn on the alpha male at will. I don’t keep it on all the time, it’s a major chick magnet, and chick quality varies a lot. I have a woman who was raised in a traditional family, now, and we have a child together. I make most of the decisions, and at the same time seek her respectful input. If she really needs something to be a different way, and the cost isn’t high, yeah, she gets her way, but we negotiate- in respect for each other, and self. And a word: stay away from feminists. Being with a feminist is like sleeping with poisonous snakes. You will be bitten.

    Some women say they have a dilemma: Give it up too soon you are a ho. Not soon enough and you get dumped. This is easy to resolve. This is feedback. Feedback is always useful. Getting dumped simply means you need to improve yourself. Get a Bragg diet. Try being cosmetic free for a while. Get clothing that is always in style. Exercise. Do Chi Kung. Do a little babysitting, so you know how to take care of a baby. Talk to women who are already where you want to be, and seek advice. Improve yourself daily. You won’t have to work hard, most American women are spending down all their assets- beauty, money, selfrespect, and so on, as fast as they can. They will hit the wall in time. You may be able to sail over it- IF you improve yourself enough. Some women do. Yes, it is possible to sail over the wall.

    I recall that the divorce rate for arranged marriages is 1 in 25. Meditate on that.

  30. Frank says

    The best way to deal with sociopaths is to google checklists, and evaluate those that might be on that spectrum. And avoid them, as much as possible. If a woman has no respect for you, get out. Leave. She will never acquire it. She will not change, or get better.

    Some men, who can’t easily leave, deal with this by getting sick. Some by abandonment. Some by getting difficult.

    Men are creatures of habit. If they are fairly satisfied, with a woman, generally they will stay the course. All men have a breaking point, too, women do not understand that. What was that scene in Meet the Parents, where Robert DeNiro says you are either inside, or outside, the circle of trust, for a man. Once a women exits the circle of trust, it takes a lot to get back in. Many men will never let her back in. Ever.

    In college, I was making small talk with a couple of women I liked. It was the usual get to know you. They said something quite disrespectful, not consciously, it was clearly from deep in their psyche. I walked away right then. Oh, they laughed at me as I left. I felt triumphant. I never talked to them again, ever.

    I’ve had emasculating women ask me why they can’t keep a man around. Yeah, really. If they appear at all open to feedback, I tell them that honey gets more flies than vinegar does. When they see how much work they’ll have to do, to become, like, viable partners, they usually just get frustrated, and angry. Women seem to want a quick fix. And their mothers aren’t giving them the training they need, to be successful in long term relationships with men.

    And for women who aren’t open to feedback, who ask me, I tell them what they want to hear, “It’s not you, it’s them, you are just meeting immature men, you need to get a higher grade of guy, that’s your problem, you’re bottom-feeding.” I can say it with a totally sincere face, and tone of voice, too. For people who can’t handle the truth, lies will do. I don’t like lying, but sometimes it is the best option. George Carlin said honesty may be the best policy, which shows that dishonesty is the second best policy.

    Men over about 24 often start listening to their gut feelings. If I don’t feel good about a woman, it is immediate full camo time, evade and escape, stealth mode, get out of the line of fire time. I have as little contact with them as possible. If they don’t know who I am, they can’t crucify me on #metoo, or whatever other places they go to. When I’m around most feminists, I get a feeling in my stomach, like a very angry fanged animal with sharp claws wants to get out really fast. It is my nervous system, guiding me to self-preservation. I listen, and act on it.

  31. Luke says

    There is one way to permanently end emasculation. Cease it in your own imagination. Neville Goddard had a good take, on this.
    1) He said to live in the end: Imagine your wish fulfilled. Neville calls this “living in the end”. Feel the emotion- the feeling- of being in the midst of attaining this goal. Pretend that you’re really there in the scene, make it so real, that it is more real than “reality”, which is only your previous states. Do this visualization before you sleep. See this version of you as you drift off to sleep. Put your hand on your heart. When you wake up, go back to this visualization. (from The Feeling is the Secret book)

    2) Everyone is you pushed out: People reflect the part of us that hasn’t been healed yet. Work on your own negativity. Accept it & integrate it. This is like the Jungian shadow work. This relates to Hooponopono. You need to heal yourself first. Go from a competitive to a creative mindset. You change people by looking at them and changing how you define them. In Quantum physics– your observation of an atom changes it. Look up the twin slit experiment, which has been run for over 100 years.

    3) You are a piece of the Divine. Your power is “I AM…” because whatever you put after I am…, you will tend to become. Shift your identity and become this Divine Essence when you show up in the world.

    4) Assumption of the new reality: Assume the wish fulfilled. Stay consistent to your vision and assume the wish fulfilled. Feel the emotion of what you want to create. Give yourself permission right now to live in the end. Later, you will actually experience this reality, in the flesh. Remember, Reality is crystallized imagination, with a time lag.

    Take agency. Change the inside, and the outside changes. The inside is your point of power. If you don’t like feminists, erase the feminist part in your consciousness, that creates them showing up. If you don’t like some other part, listen for the lesson, learn it, and let this go. Create what you do want more of in life. How does it feel, real, now?

    I found myself in two bad marriages. I just began seeing myself in a better situation, feeling that real, listening to imagined sounds in that ideal place. And that better situation, without those low grade women, showed up in the physical world. Neither is in my life, any more. How does it get better than that? Wayne Dyer gave one of Neville’s shorter books to every one of his kids, and told them to read it. If the good people just delete the feminist part in their minds, they will greatly weaken the feminist part in the mass consciousness. If the good people began creating really good lives, in this way, feminists would just vanish. Their product is low grade, based on hate.

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  33. Roy says

    Paul Simon said it best. Women do not change their habits. If they are abusive, they stay abusive.

    50 Ways to Leave Your Lover
    Paul Simon

    The problem is all inside your head she said to me
    The answer is easy if you take it logically
    I’d like to help you in your struggle to be free
    There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

    She said it’s really not my habit to intrude
    Furthermore, I hope my meaning won’t be lost or misconstrued
    But I’ll repeat myself at the risk of being crude
    There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
    Fifty ways to leave your lover

    You just slip out the back, Jack
    Make a new plan, Stan
    You don’t need to be coy, Roy
    Just get yourself free
    Hop on the bus, Gus
    You don’t need to discuss much
    Just drop off the key, Lee
    And get yourself free

  34. Horace says

    Easy solution: DTB. But don’t tell her. Just start getting less focused. Pay less attention. Don’t call. Just withdraw all your energy. Be cold. Let HER cut it off, always. If you cut it off, she will take the nastiest revenge she can imaging. But if she cuts it off, it’s done, and she won’t stalk you. Ever been stalked by a woman? Yeah, try to call the cops. They’ll laugh you off the phone. They have access to weapons, can use them, and will get away with it. So, if a woman isn’t worth being with- give her no feedback. Don’t be plain. Just withdraw your energy. Tell her it’s you, not her, you just aren’t ready to commit, you know, all that stuff. You have to be heartless, with women who have no hearts. Give them a dose of their own medicine.

  35. Julie says

    Modern women are clueless about men and have no idea how relationships work. The average high school student knows more about chemistry, than modern women in the USA know about relationships, or men.

    And the “men” they do have available are often immature. Mature men get that way because they **want** to become mature, because they see **rewards** for being a mature man. There’s a guy who lives next door, about 22. He is single. He has a 3 wheeler, and other mantoys. And he has some gorgeous women coming to his apartment. If I were him, I’d want to enjoy that as long as I could.

    The “failure to launch” exists for one reason: there is no perceived reward for launching. Feminist propaganda has told men they are demons, and women they are angels. “What do you expect after 60 years of feminist hagarry de-masculinizing men? Feminists created the very betas they bemoan.” Plus, women are taught great disrespect for men and marriage. Here are some lies:

    Men can’t be trusted. Uh, great belief, so women attract men who can’t be trusted.
    The sexes are the same, with different genitalia. Thus, women can, and should, have sex like a man: with no strings attached. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
    Women should avoid marriage, and even have children without a man around. Whatever fool feminist dreamed this up has never raised children.
    Smart women don’t change diapers. Or oil. Or do any kind of useful stuff around the house. WHich means they are dependent on others.
    Masculinity is toxic, and the average guy will rape you if you’re not careful.

    What do men who get these messages say? F U, bitch! Don’t need ya! They will consider women who have consciously erased these lies, though. They will consider women who pay attention to what is real, and aren’t projecting the “I don’t need you, I’m so strong and independent” BS. Men like intelligent, strong women- when they are allies. As enemies, they are avoided.

    Parents can help. Stay married, if possible, if the partners are good. Share custody, instead of wiping out the father, if divorce is necessary. And let boys be boys, and let them be strong, so they can mature, as men, instead of emasculated feminine boys. Women gravitate to strong men, no matter what crap comes out of their mouths. Societies in the past raised boys into men, by respecting men, ensuring they had a place and so on. That is how they survived. Our society will not survive, without strong men.

  36. Jill says

    Camille Paglia: Feminism Based On Destroying Men Is ‘Absolute Poison’ To Culture

    Cultural commentator Camille Paglia said in a recently published video that second-wave feminism – in its attempt to destroy men – is also destroying women and our culture. A video of Paglia’s discussion at the Battle of Ideas festival in London in October 2016 has been made available on YouTube and was recently linked to on the Drudge Report. The video is released with the launch of Paglia’s new book, Provocations: Collected Essays.

    The feminist icon – who prefers the original brand of feminism that won women the right to vote and raised up heroines such as Katharine Hepburn, Amelia Earhart, and Anne Morrow Lindbergh – said the more recent second wave of feminism is “an absolute poison that has spread worldwide.”
    Paglia said the original feminists “admired what men had done – there was no male-bashing – as became systemic to second-wave feminism.” The brand of feminism recreated by Betty Friedan in the 1960s, Paglia said, is now based on “denigrating men” and “defining men as oppressors and tyrants through history.”

    “It is an absolute lie,” she said, “an extrapolation of neuroticism on the part of these fanatics.” The author of Sexual Personae, Paglia added the “snowflake generation” is also a result of social media, “where people feel they have so many friends and they want a sense that reality is comforting them and cushioning them and so on.”

    A professor at the University of the Arts in Philadelphia, Paglia said that, by attempting to suppress the evidence of differences between the sexes, second-wave feminism “is actually exposing young women to danger.”

    and evidence of the sickness that so called “progressives” use:

    “Paglia added that the nation’s educational system has failed young people, because it has “tried to make everyone feel good” and uses the word “diversity” as a “banner” for trying to make up for something from the past – the hard truth of which is not even being taught any longer for fear of “triggering” groups of people.

    Comparing second-wave feminism to the “Spanish Inquisition,” Paglia explained “any form of dissent – even within feminism – is treated as heresy … and they actually try to destroy you.” Paglia said that while second-wave feminists have led a drive to destroy traditional religion and culture, the result has been the “new religion” of political correctness.

    Comments:

    If the leftist loons had the power, she would be tried and executed for crimes against the state for undermining the party line.

    A long but worthwhile read (maybe too much for the twitter 146ers and two phrases and I’m doners)

    It points to the elemental failure of what feminism is, the nature it contradicts, the debacle that “progressive”ness and feminism will inevitability cause, and the destruction of people it demands.

    http://www.truthbasedlogic.com/delusion.htm

  37. Mario says

    Women are constantly shittesting men, to see if they can be emasculated. You don’t need six ways. Just pass the shittests.
    Ask yourself how a bad boy would deal with the situation, and do that. Do dishes? Ha ha hah ah hahahahahahahahahah. Good try.
    Vacuum the rug? H ah hha ahaha! Stop, I’m laughing so hard it hurts!
    Hold her purse, while she’s in the bathroom? Negatory, dude. Just say “no”.
    Listen to her arguing about something? Maybe. But what she wants from you is a firm decision. She wants closure- from you.

  38. Harold says

    “henpecked” was a metaphor long in use. For a reason.
    There is a solution. Start being odd. Strange. Have moods.
    Be unpredictable. In short, act like women. It’s kind of fun.

  39. George says

    What is new is that women have been groomed to believe men and society owe them.

    Suzanne, you’re batting 1,000. I was married to two women like this. One left, and the other played some serious mind games, and I left her. If you can’t pull your own weight, don’t get in the harness. And don’t get into the harness with someone who can’t pull their own weight. And for the men reading this- look very closely for this, in a prospective mate. If you find any entitlement, get the h… out, as fast as you can, these women are nothing but trouble, heartache, and large bills. And they will never change.

  40. Marik says

    If a man needs to be asking how to be emasculation proof, he needs to be asking how to get the heck out of the relationship.

    If he can’t get out of it, he will need to start playing mind games. He could be sick. He could be sort of moody. He could do the task badly. There are all sorts of ways. Black people in the South knew to shuck and jive, which is, to smile a lot, and do stupid things. American POWs in German POW camps learned to do the same thing.

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